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Samme712
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OKay do you think its creepy for a 25 or 26 year old person to be flirting with a young girl, or do you think age matters at all?
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah
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Define young person...
If you mean like a 25 or 26 year old to be flirting with someone your age, then YES creepy!
If you mean like a 25 or 26 year old to be flirting with someone your age, then YES creepy!
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Paulasaurus
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Samme712
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AnandaHya
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yes its creepy. shivers ewww
when i was your age i always wondered what was up with that and why they didn't find girls their own age to date and found out that those older women were smart enough to realize that most of them are control freaks and abusive to the young girls. I meet people in college running away from that sort of relationship.
Its not below some people take any attempt at conversation as flirting.
Age difference is not the big deal, but more often than not one could question the motivations and what would people of such chronological distance have in common.
Some people are still married off at young ages to much older people.
...am I personally easy with this? no
Age difference is not the big deal, but more often than not one could question the motivations and what would people of such chronological distance have in common.
Some people are still married off at young ages to much older people.
...am I personally easy with this? no
Yes actually that is quite creepy! lol age definitely matters. Well I mean sometimes older guys will talk to younger girls in casual conversations and sometimes the girl would think it as flirting. In that case I guess it wouldnt be as creepy? But if they were actually flirting then... yeah just a little. 
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BeauBLESSED
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I, like most others it would seem, believe that there is such a thing as too wide a gap in age. Furthermore, the greater the difference in age the more inappropriate the process of flirting becomes. However, on a platonic scale, kids and adults can have potentially rewarding or treasured friendships. In this I am a firm believer, seeing as I have always had a better time getting on with adults.
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Jimmy47
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If someone that age is flirting with someone your age then yes it's very creepy. If it's happening to you then i advise you to stay away from that person.
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peachetty
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CREEPY CREEPY CREEPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! have had it happen too its just like sooooooooooooooooo disgusting!! agahh!
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Vittoria
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onlyme
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I have friends young and old but friendship is a lot different then that. I do believe age makes a difference, and I feel the same. Hollywood, and media portrays these men,women having relationships, marrying guys,girls half their age, which I really don't think is right. I think most relationships today are based on infatuation, lust, strong feelings of the flesh, but not love. I'm a firm believe that Christ should be the foundation, and center of every relationship, and that love is pure. That love rejoices in the truth, that love will not sin, because it can not sin, love will do no ill the bible says. I think Christ should be the start, foundation, center of even our friendships, this way we can continue to encourage one another, and help each other to walk in the way that is right.
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SantoSubito
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If it's a 25 year old flirting with like a 14 or 15 year old girl then yes it is creepy. But If it's a 25 year old flirting with a 20 year old then no it is not. As you get older the age difference matters less and less, because you are no longer developing and your generally on the same maturity level. When I was 16 I dated a 14 year old girl that was just ridiculously immature so when your in your teenage years even a small age gap makes a big difference.
If you're referring to someone of your age being flirted with by someone around the age of 25 or 26, then yes it is disturbing and creepy. There is a huge maturity gap between those ages (not to mention the legal issues). Age becomes less of an issue as you get older because eventually the maturity gaps begin to change. But at your age it's creepy and definitely not okay. Speaking as someone on the other side of this spectrum (meaning I'm definitely not 13) there is a glaring difference, and the maturity gap seems about as big as someone of your age looking back on a kindergartener. And as SantoSubito pointed out above, at your age even 2 or 3 years can be a huge maturity gap, and if you don't believe me, look at the people at least 2 or 3 years younger than you and tell me you would honestly feel right flirting with them lol. It wouldn't be as creepy of course, but you'd be fully aware of the maturity gap.
I really hope you're not posting this question because you're actually experiencing this issue. If you are then I urge you to please remove yourself from that situation, and keep yourself safe. Don't allow yourself to get into a situation where you're not safe.
I really hope you're not posting this question because you're actually experiencing this issue. If you are then I urge you to please remove yourself from that situation, and keep yourself safe. Don't allow yourself to get into a situation where you're not safe.