That's really interesting.
Glad you jumped in brother.
I think the overarching issue here is really one of theology proper, which is the study of God himself.
When this is lacking, even among really nice people, we end up with all kinds of "perceived" conundrums which, upon more investigation, don't really exist.
Here's an example from a post you quoted.
PaulThomas, with the best intentions I'm sure, spoke about how "persons" require "time" to engage in logical and sequential conversation. So God must need this kind of time for members of the Godhead to communicate. But the comparison, unfortunately, gets into a common error right at the outset. Although God is a "person", he is not a "human person." So the dimensions that bind humans, like time and space, simply don't have the same effect on God, as he is not one of one us.
But I do think the "agreement" between members of the Godhead doesn't NEED to transcend time, as I think it just transcends any necessity. The members of the trinity are, and always have been, in perfect agreement in all things. They all know what they are thinking, and they are all in agreement. So for them to "agree" on something, no time is even required... they are just in perpetual agreement by nature.
Anyway, it's all interesting stuff.
God Bless.
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