During Jesus time Roman women played a limited role in public life. They could not attend, speak in, or vote at political assemblies and they could not hold any position of political responsibility.
Gen 3:16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
(NOTE: Because Eve was decieved she receive's several judgements/punishments. Note the last judgement: And your husband shall have rule over her)
1 Tim 2:13-14 Paul writes via the Holy Spirit. Women can't teach or have spiritual authority over men. Therefore women can't serve in a public setting as Pastor, whereby exercising spiritual authority over men.
1 Tim 2:11-14 Vs 13 explains why women can't teach or have authority over men. Adam was created 1st. Eve was the one deceived, not Adam (vs 13-14). God created Adam 1st Eve & to be a Adam's help mate. Eph 5:22-33 lays out the same order in the family & the church.
Scripture instructs women to teach other women & children Titus 2:3-5. Verse 14 makes her manager of the household (this was also Roman policy of the time).
Having said the above: Scripture mandates the man to place a higher value on his wife's life, then on his own. Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it. It doesn't tell her to lay down her life first. This verse teaches just how much value God places on women. MOO!