I prefer "reformed", would be fine with "Reformed Presbyterian." Nobody I know who is reformed ever called me a "Calvinist." My beliefs are fairly well summarized in the Westminster Confession of Faith. There are a few things I disagree with in there (e.g. RPW), but not much.
I would say you need to get out more and research things.
Here are Reformed organizations that use the name Calvin in it.

1. From "Humble Calvinism" by J. A. Medders (a Calvinist author and site promoter):
- "Many of us who love to love the 'doctrines of grace' have not grown in showing grace, We have not become more gracious, kind, tender, and compassionate. And that can only mean one thing: we actually don’t know the doctrines of grace. Sure, we know the points and can rehearse the arguments and even recall verses to support the five petals of the TULIP. But an arrogant and argumentative Calvinist is just a Pharisee with a fresh coat of paint."
2. The phrase, “You don’t understand Calvinism“ has become a popular meme due to the fact that other Calvinists have said this to not only me but to many other Christians over the years.
https://soteriology101.com/2017/05/20/you-dont-understand-calvinism/3.
3. Calvinism is the gospel - Quote by Spurgeon:
“I have my own private opinion that there is no such thing as preaching Christ and Him crucified, unless we preach what nowadays is called Calvinism. It is a nickname to call it Calvinism; Calvinism is the gospel, and nothing else. I do not believe we can preach the gospel, if we do not preach justification by faith, without works; nor unless we preach the sovereignty of God in His dispensation of grace; nor unless we exalt the electing, unchanging, eternal, immutable, conquering love of Jehovah; nor do I think we can preach the gospel, unless we base it upon the special and particular redemption of His elect and chosen people which Christ wrought out upon the cross; nor can I comprehend a gospel which lets saints fall away after they are called, and suffers the children of God to be burned in the fires of damnation after having once believed in Jesus. Such a gospel I abhor.”
Sermon, A Defense of Calvinism. - C.H. Spurgeon.
4. Calvinist author in his book provides these quotes:
When Paul reflected on the doctrines that make up what we call Calvinism, he was moved to rejoice in God. This is the key to not killing off today’s Calvinist upsurge. When we read our books, attend our conferences, and ‘Piperup’ our iPods, the primary goal must not be to gain a better understanding of 16th- and 17th-century doctrine. It must be to be blown out of the water by the God who has chosen us in infinite mercy and wisdom.” (18) - A quote from pro Calvinist author Greg Dutcher of the book “Killing Calvinism”
I believe with all my heart that Calvinism is a treasure. It beautifully summarizes and systematizes the truths concerning our salvation revealed in Scripture. But treasure in the hands of fools is a frightening prospect, and nothing fuels a fool more than pride. I pray that my fellow Calvinists would join me in hunting down every vestige of pride in our hearts, right down to the last lingering impulse of arrogance.” (82) A quote from pro Calvinist author Greg Dutcher of the book “Killing Calvinism”
Source:
https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/20-quotes-from-killing-calvinism
5. Why I am a Calvinist by Brandon Lucas.
https://www.monergism.com/blog/why-i-am-calvinist-brandon-lucas-guest-post
6. I have talked with Calvinists since 2010 on different Christian forums over the years and many of them did not have a problem with me using the term “Calvinism.”
7. Ligonier Ministries quotes a Calvinistic pastor on their website. He states, I quote:
”Pastor Ian Hamilton demonstrates that Calvinism is biblical, God-centered Christianity with important implications for our daily lives.“
Source:
https://www.ligonier.org/posts/calvinism-and-christian-life-new-teaching-series-ian-hamilton
So if you have a problem in others here calling you Calvinist, and say it is false slander then you need to rebuke all these others who refer to their belief as Calvinism and who hold to the same teachings you do. Granted, I do agree it is good to try and obey 1 Corinthians 3, but I believe one can clarify this and do so with acknowledging the truth that there are many believers out there who do self identify as being a Calvinist. To ignore this is to ignore the world we live in.
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