I know where you are coming from, sir...See that is the issue you see this as an arena it is not an arena it is in every way also a church just not in a building. If you go into a debate with that kind of mindset you will never learn anything and never grow in spirit you only come to make war and be in war and that will only cause more strife both in your heart and the hearts of others. Tell me this where in scripture does say to make war with each other? all I have seen in scripture is to encourage and build each other up r. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 states, "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." Other verses like Hebrews 3:13 and Hebrews 10:24-25
You be yourself in the Lord. Don't change.
And, it appears you wish to have me molded into someone you want me to be.
But, those with certain gifts can not conform to your desired out come.
"Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called
when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses." 1 Timothy 6:12
It is a fight if your gift demands it be so.
If you are one called to sit in a pew and learn, it is another expression of being in the battle.