This is true because God pours out His grace before man shows any inclination toward Him but if that grace did not exist, we all would end up in the lake of fire never knowing why any of us were there. God has never forsaken us, only one man has known the full weight of what it means to be forsaken while He carried our sin in His body.
John 1:12 makes the order of things very clear. The Light is revealed, we take hold by believing on His name, the power to be born again is given.
John 1:12
But to all who received him, who believed in his name, he gave power to become children of God;