Man has all the natural ability he needs in his own sin nature to be hateful, rebellious and hostile towards God. This is why circumcision of the heart is a vitally important grace that God bestows upon his elect that moves their hearts to fear God, worship Him and especially to LOVE Him.
Again, your logic fails. If Calvinism is true, there would be no resisting the Holy Spirit in Acts 7. God would not bother with the unregenerate or non-Elect. There would be no reason to rebuke these Jews because they did not have any capacity for rebuke by Stephen. It would be like trying to argue with your computer or punish a dog who has an uncontrollable pooping problem that soils your carpets because it is sick.
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