Excellent question — and I appreciate how you connected Proverbs and Ecclesiastes. You’re absolutely right that discernment is central to true wisdom.Care to elaborate?
Not implying you are wrong but rather the parable appears to being in regards to one situation, how to respond to the folly of a fool. Or maybe I am missing something in your post.
The parable says, "Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding." So I do agree with your comment about the key thing being discernment since the principle gives one wisdom to unlock understanding. After all it i s written "Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding."
So who do you think God is speaking to in the Book of the Preacher wherein it is written, ""For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow." ?
When Solomon wrote, “For in much wisdom is much grief: and he that increaseth knowledge increaseth sorrow” (Ecclesiastes 1:18 KJV), he was describing wisdom “under the sun” — human observation and reasoning apart from divine revelation. The “Book of the Preacher” (Ecclesiastes) explores what life looks like when viewed from the earthly, temporal perspective.
In contrast, Proverbs emphasizes wisdom from above — “the fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom” (Proverbs 9:10 KJV). One grieves because earthly wisdom exposes the futility of everything done without God — vanity. But heavenly wisdom brings peace because it begins with reverence for God and ends in understanding His will.
So when Solomon says “in much wisdom is much grief,” he’s not condemning wisdom itself — he’s revealing that knowledge without God leads to despair.
That’s why James contrasts the two kinds of wisdom:
“This wisdom descendeth not from above, but is earthly, sensual, devilish… But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable…”
— James 3:15–17 KJV
God is speaking through Ecclesiastes to remind us that all human striving, knowledge, and reasoning outside of Him ends in emptiness. True discernment comes only when we align understanding with the fear of the Lord — the foundation of all wisdom.
Grace and peace in Christ
Acts 17:11 (KJV)
“These were more noble than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness of mind, and searched the scriptures daily, whether those things were so.”
