Sounds like psycho babble to me.
Eph 4:30-31
And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom
you were sealed for the day of redemption.
Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.
2 Tim 2:19
Nevertheless, God's solid foundation stands firm, sealed with this inscription: "
The Lord knows those who are his," and, "Everyone who confesses the name of the Lord
must turn away from wickedness."
Claiming Jesus, "Lord lord" is claimed by many, but finding the reality and staying in it is different
1 Tim 3:13
Those who have served well
gain an excellent standing and
great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus
Heb 10:22
let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in
full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water.
It is sad but true, speaking through the word shows the reality better than offering insights just from ones walk.
Matt 7:2
For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and
with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
I do not want to judge others or their reality rather to encourage them to listen to and follow Jesus.