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James 1:19 according to Paul "Understand this, my brother's and sisters: you must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry."

Is that not true, young men and women? Do you give your friend time to speak when she is with you? Are you slow to answer the professor's quiz? Do you walk away from a fight, even when it costs you?

John 15:13 according to the Lord's Word, "There is no greater love than to lay down one's life for one's friends."

Not having a friend that sends you thoughtful texts is hard. You'll need those people even if it seems like your life is complete. Youth is vicariously lived, you will grow old with your friends and some day see that you would never walk away from them, even if they are angry with you.

And looking back on college I can see that being young as a man turned into a hard life for many years before seeing the first fruits of success. Don't doubt yourselves. Give your girlfriend a call. It will all make sense when the ends meet.
 
Most importantly, serve God first, before you serve any other. Answer your tests with prayer, and don't be ashamed to take a stand for the truth.

I'm only 4 years removed from public High School, and there was lots of godlessness happening in the institution where I was.
There was cirriculum against the Holy doctrine, a relentless torrent of conditioning and propaganda to be an anxious servant of the satanic world, and too many peers polluted by the deceits of evil to confidently make freinds.

Yet if you are in a similar situation, do seek the peace OP promotes, and seek the knowledge of God before any worldly knowledge they give you, and put the knowledge of God first as you read your textbooks; Don't arrogantly dismiss everything in them, but discern what are good and true aspects of Gods creation, to compliment Him and give thanks for.

When they talk about things like politics or 'do x to prepare your life', when it pertains to the world and not of God, treat it as if it's the voice of a lifeless idol, or a means to an end for gaining an advantage at a convenient time; For their words are like pieces of wood, which may be carved into fancy forms and stained with various colors, yet they inevitably rot away over time.
 
Another important thing, is that you all learn practical skills along your ways.
If you can be a skilled chef, craftsman, survivalist, gardener, or other skill that would help you earn income without deceit, you will be better off than many college graduates in this generation. Don't strain yourself to do what you're not called to. Do your best to avoid all debts at all costs.
 
Most importantly, serve God first, before you serve any other. Answer your tests with prayer, and don't be ashamed to take a stand for the truth.

I'm only 4 years removed from public High School, and there was lots of godlessness happening in the institution where I was.
There was cirriculum against the Holy doctrine, a relentless torrent of conditioning and propaganda to be an anxious servant of the satanic world, and too many peers polluted by the deceits of evil to confidently make freinds.

Yet if you are in a similar situation, do seek the peace OP promotes, and seek the knowledge of God before any worldly knowledge they give you, and put the knowledge of God first as you read your textbooks; Don't arrogantly dismiss everything in them, but discern what are good and true aspects of Gods creation, to compliment Him and give thanks for.

When they talk about things like politics or 'do x to prepare your life', when it pertains to the world and not of God, treat it as if it's the voice of a lifeless idol, or a means to an end for gaining an advantage at a convenient time; For their words are like pieces of wood, which may be carved into fancy forms and stained with various colors, yet they inevitably rot away over time.


Matthew 6:33But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
 
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Most importantly, serve God first, before you serve any other. Answer your tests with prayer, and don't be ashamed to take a stand for the truth.

I'm only 4 years removed from public High School, and there was lots of godlessness happening in the institution where I was.
There was cirriculum against the Holy doctrine, a relentless torrent of conditioning and propaganda to be an anxious servant of the satanic world, and too many peers polluted by the deceits of evil to confidently make freinds.

Yet if you are in a similar situation, do seek the peace OP promotes, and seek the knowledge of God before any worldly knowledge they give you, and put the knowledge of God first as you read your textbooks; Don't arrogantly dismiss everything in them, but discern what are good and true aspects of Gods creation, to compliment Him and give thanks for.

When they talk about things like politics or 'do x to prepare your life', when it pertains to the world and not of God, treat it as if it's the voice of a lifeless idol, or a means to an end for gaining an advantage at a convenient time; For their words are like pieces of wood, which may be carved into fancy forms and stained with various colors, yet they inevitably rot away over time.

Peace might come from having money or a partner. That much I really agree with. But idols like ATM machines and the Television really do create these rotten kinds of social encounters despite being useful even to young adults.

High School is a barrier that today I don't think about but yesterday was my entire life. No person needs shame after getting graduation, that is a rite of passage. But I think it might creep in by 30, so I give my heart to those who really want to see mature adulthood.

I like the way of referring to the Holy Bible as a textbook in a lot of ways. It helps bring structure and capacity for personal growth. And growth is really important, even with God.
 
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Another important thing, is that you all learn practical skills along your ways.
If you can be a skilled chef, craftsman, survivalist, gardener, or other skill that would help you earn income without deceit, you will be better off than many college graduates in this generation. Don't strain yourself to do what you're not called to. Do your best to avoid all debts at all costs.

Do you think the word of Jesus Christ is the red scripture? Or is the entire faith the absolution of wrongdoing by everyone but Christ?
 
Peace might come from having money or a partner. That much I really agree with. But idols like ATM machines and the Television really do create these rotten kinds of social encounters despite being useful even to young adults.

High School is a barrier that today I don't think about but yesterday was my entire life. No person needs shame after getting graduation, that is a rite of passage. But I think it might creep in by 30, so I give my heart to those who really want to see mature adulthood.

I like the way of referring to the Holy Bible as a textbook in a lot of ways. It helps bring structure and capacity for personal growth. And growth is really important, even with God.
ATM machines are idols now? For me it's just a stupid machine that gives or takes the money I'm provisioned. I'm not against your morality, but you guys need to stop getting choked up on objects that are objectively capable of doing nothing, except what a man makes out of it. If we're going to judge angels, what's an inanimate peice of plastic or wood supposed to have on anyone?
As for TV, I get that most things it's used for are trash, but there are still wholesome things that can be done with it. It's just a plug pull away from being rendered completely useless, and a little ignorance away from not doing what it's supposed to. What kind of idol is that? What about the device you post on?
Do you think the word of Jesus Christ is the red scripture? Or is the entire faith the absolution of wrongdoing by everyone but Christ?
The sacrifice of Christ is the absolution of all wrongdoing, and the whole Holy Scripture is His word.
When Christ came in the flesh He put his whole word to death, so that those who are condemned in the flesh by it will be saved by beleif in His work of salvation, and that their spirits may be quickened by the word withitout fear or hostility toward God.
 
Well, an ATM machine is definitely lifeless, I'll give you that. But there are paths to success that depend on networks not levied by enrolling in College. If you want to give back, and have money, you can do that in a trade. Having friends is also important. Even if you don't talk to them for a long time, you should give them a chance to accept your kindness.