A question for the men...

[Ettenauj]

Entitlement. This goes into what I was going to answer on this thread. My answer is their heart. You can see the inner beauty of a person permeating their outer beauty. A physically attractive woman (by societies standards of beauty) who is ugly on the inside is repulsive. There is just a… nastiness to their “appearance.” You can see it in their countenance.

Ben in my limited experience I've seen men chase gorgeous women who were inwardly ugly all the time, did you always feel this way, or only when you became a Christian?

 

[Ettenauj]

One who lacks discretion.

Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman without discretion (Proverbs 11:22).

Not sure what you mean, can you give an example please.

 

[Lynx]

Oh you can find examples of people who have no discretion right here on this forum.

Then there are some of the girls at my job, who complain about how lacking their husbands are in the bedroom. That's a real gold ring in a hog's nose.

 

[Ettenauj]

Oh you can find examples of people who have no discretion right here on this forum.

Then there are some of the girls at my job, who complain about how lacking their husbands are in the bedroom. That's a real gold ring in a hog's nose.

Got it😐, may I always have discretion in Jesus' name.🙏🏽

 

[inukubo]

Tatoos

 

[BrotherMike]

Male bashing

 

[Phoenix_Rising]

I honestly believe the biggest thing I find unattractive about a woman is if she doesn't even bother to give me her attention. Never looking , barely listening, ect. It doesn't matter if the object is just to place an order, to start a conversation, or whatever.

 

[EternalFire]

Not sure what you mean, can you give an example please.

Lacking modesty and self-control are two examples.

"Women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness--with good works" (1 Timothy 2:9-10).

 

[CS1]

I just genuinely want to know,


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This is not a set up for us ladies to get offended and fuss at y'all, I know everyone has things that are just automatic NOPES in their mind and I want to know yours.

Unattractive distrust, stocking, them pursuing instead of the man. I am of fashion

 

[Treeboy]

Oh you can find examples of people who have no discretion right here on this forum.

Then there are some of the girls at my job, who complain about how lacking their husbands are in the bedroom. That's a real gold ring in a hog's nose.

Because laying on your back is hard

 

[Lanolin]

Because laying on your back is hard

??

 

[Lanolin]

Unattractive distrust, stocking, them pursuing instead of the man. I am of fashion

just wondered what stocking was...

stockings as in tights? Leggings? long socks?

 

[Oncefallen]

Unattractive distrust, stocking, them pursuing instead of the man. I am of fashion

just wondered what stocking was...

stockings as in tights? Leggings? long socks?

I think he meant, "stalking them, pursuing instead of the man. I am old fashioned."

 

[CS1]

I think he meant, "stalking them, pursuing instead of the man. I am old fashioned."

Yes amen thank you LOL

 

[Diakonos]

Smoking

 

[followJesustoday]

Bullying, self centeredness, hates the 2nd Amendment, supports abortion, a supporter of the modern feminist movements who have grown hair everywhere, also female appearance at a distance but up close is actually a dude then that is a huge unattractive trait when a man likes biological females. So the moral of the story is, the more I grow close to Christ, the more of what God sees as immoral becomes what is unattractive.

VERY well said--especially the last sentence--LK

 

[followJesustoday]

I'm going to take a stab at this.

Confidence - being sure enough of yourself and your opinion to voice it and defend it

Arrogance - finding it inconceivable that your opinion could be wrong and that any thinking human being could hold a different opinion

Great definitions of confidence and arrogance--I tend toward the first--especially when it comes to my faith in God.

 

[followJesustoday]

I like that answer.

So true and I'll bet the devil has something to do with their repulsive insides, as opposed to insides filled with God that radiate beauty.

 

[Lanolin]

I saw in the guinness book of records the bearded lady who had the longest beard...there is a picture. I guess people may think thats unattractive, but it has gotten her an entry into that book.

I dont think the guiness book of records has many records for virtuousness or altruism, or good works but then, hard to measure something like that is it? It has things for most expensive xxx but no records for the cheapest xxx or free rice or anything like that lol. Theres no entry that says worlds most attractive woman but there is one on the mother that had the most children.

Techinically that ought to be Eve, or for the faithful, shoulndn't that be Sarah?

 

[Lanolin]

I suppose the christian equivalent of the Guinness Book of world records is the Lambs book of Life.

I am sure God is writing our names in there and all the good works people have done in His name.