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  1. melita916

    God's design for relationship is arranged marriage, incompatible with modern society

    Ah so I’m a lesser Christian because I’m married? Well…. Ok.
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    Share your hobbies with us!

    I’ve never done karaoke! I help with vocals at our local fellowship and lead songs from time to time. 😊
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    Share your hobbies with us!

    Hobbies. Let’s see… singing is my favorite. I do some brush lettering. I can play the violin. I know some things on guitar. I started water coloring, but I want to do all the pretty things without actually taking the time to learn and practice lol
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    Allow me to introduce myself

    Welcome to CC!
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    😂Fun Thread: What's the funniest or strangest Christian pick-up line you've heard?

    “Are you a 90 degree angle? Cuz you be looking right!” “Are you a parking ticket? Because you got fiiiiine written all over you!” “I’m no photographer, but I can picture us together.” “On a scale from 1 to 10, you’re a 9 and I’m the 1 you need.” I’ve used these on my husband AFTER we became...
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    What Is YOUR Kryptonite? (What Things About Others Make You Go Weak In the Knees?)

    A tall man with glasses and a beard who loves Jesus and is kind to everyone until that person puts his family in danger, in which he turns into a protective bear. Plays the guitar and plays the bass and loves music and serving the Lord through music. Who makes me laugh and prays for me and loves...
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    Has God Ever Actively Told You to Pursue or Break Up With Someone? How Did it Go?

    i’ve only had one breakup. we were together for almost 5 years. we hit a hiccup in the relationship, and i said to the Lord, “do whatever You want to do, even if it hurts.” right then, i knew the relationship was over, but i didn’t know when it would happen. that was either a monday or tuesday...
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    Does "Pretty Privilege" Exist?

    As someone who always felt invisible to the opposite sex, I say pretty privilege exists lol. I remember when a friend and I went out to dinner, and the server looked at her most of the time when he would come to the table. He wasn’t unkind to me. Just nicer to her lol.
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    Single And In Need of Advice

    You can witness to someone without dating them.
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    Single And In Need of Advice

    OP: you may not like my advice, but here it goes. It comes down to this (in my opinion): who do I love more? The Lord or myself?
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    Looking for a Christian friendship

    Welcome to CC! My husband grew up in PA!
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    Struggling with 🌽

    I’ve heard there are programs to block sites. Also, I would recommend having an accountability partner - a person you can be honest with and can talk to when you’re struggling.
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    "This Little Piggy Has an Inbox Full of Suitors... This Little Piggy Has None."

    As for me, I wasn’t really noticed by the opposite sex. I was pursued by 2 guys. First time I was 22. Second time I was 32. I married that guy lol.
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    Help..the worship leader is crushing on me.

    “I will not and cannot be your accountability partner. I am not interested being in a relationship with you.”
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    First Date As A Christian

    When I started talking with my husband, I told myself I wasn’t going to do anything to try to impress me. He gets what he gets! lol. Fortunately he liked me enough to stick around lol.
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    Is Anyone Here the Child of Parent(s) Who Were Older (Having Children at 50 or Above)? What Do You See as the Pros and Cons?

    i’m not in my 50s, but i was 39 when our daughter was born. i am tired lol. but i often think about how things will look like for us in the future.