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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    Good point, I like your analogy with the chess game, and it makes perfect sense. It's a choice on whether I am willing to sacrifice, if it is worth it more to keep the friendship.. to just to have a friend at all.. . Yes, I feel encouraged by all of you, along with my own inner convictions...
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    Well, I think we are really Siamese twins.. as I have struggled with the fear of man for most of my life. It has been the most prevalent fear that has kept me down, and it has hurt me the most in my life. I would gather to say, maybe.. that you are a gentle and sensitive soul? I would...
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    Their small church in which their brother(s) preach, believes in the 'Mid Acts Dispensationalism' doctrine. I googled it and it described it as "rare but growing.. " So they believe that only the books of Paul are valid for study and 'for us' (they believe in grace through faith alone...
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    I said this in just the previous post to another person.. but you dont know how many times I had this thought or feeling or sense come over me that when they didn't answer a question, or when they didn't comment (when they told me to freely write and even complain to high heaven) and then they...
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    Ha ha that's funny :):giggle: Siamese Twins :) It's so nice to finally meet you! :) I have been like this my whole life, too.. In fact, this is really crazy.. I recently read my diary when I was in Grade 7 and Grade 10, and I was shocked to read that a certain best friend that I had was not...
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    Thank you Magenta:D:giggle: You make me feel really welcome! :giggle::giggle: Thank you for your analysis, I really appreciate it!
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    LOL to your first sentence :) Yes that's true I do look for deep meaningful conversation. .. I don't mind shallow talk, it can be silly and fun, and it's good to have to balance heaviness out. There's a time and place for everything. I have had some really good friendships with people online...
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    Yes!! :D The Bride of Christ is about to be raptured, and I am READY! Jesus is coming really soon! :giggle::giggle::giggle:
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    Thank you Gary, I really appreciate your reply.. I do. What was it about that comment that especially called out to you as a red flag? As a backstory my friend is a Christian, and they attend a small church where they teach a very rare doctrine, that is heretical. It seems very cultish to...
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    When you have to suppress yourself to be friends

    I have an online friend for about 1 1/2 years. We have had some great moments during this time, but generally I started to feel very unhappy and no longer wanted to reach out to them. The main point being is that I was suppressing myself and conforming to them. The reason was because it hurt...