I also want to mention…
With threads like these, the OP is mainly talking about what he wants. Me me me. I I I. Marriage is a ministry. Marriage is serving one another. If you don’t want to serve and sacrifice, then I don’t recommend marriage.
OP, you shared what you are looking for in a spouse. To keep the topic well rounded, what do you have to offer to your spouse? Or what are characteristics you are working on to be a godly spouse?