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Well if check in the bible there are countless examples of what can happen as a result of playing with sin.Look at Samson he kept on compromising the standards God had set in his life which would of kept him safe (and annointed)with deliah until he eventually lost everything..yet in the end God...

Hi thanks for your very honest comments.Yes I totally understand how you can be feeling like this.You have experienced this 1st hand in the home and isnt it strange how a person can change sometimes AFTER you make a deep commitment to them such as marriage.Like what had gone in before was kinds...

How would this work then as you wouldn't be husband and wife you would just be a couple ?So things like living together,sexual intimacy ect wouldn't be appropriate then as your not married..you would both be in a bit of a dilemma long term then. Yes I know theres lots of stresses for planning...

Just stating the facts that all

I in no way implied or even actually stated that people of a certain age have somehow passed the vanity of physical attraction and simplify love unconditionally...where on earth do you see such words in the response I have you?..You made that up I your own mind because such a statement or...

So in view of what your comments you won't be getting married after all..but will just stay in the relationship as "engaged"?..just asking to clarify

Well said.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻..yes your not define by marital status or eve single status..Gods people get married at any age..even in my church a guy met his wife when he was over 50 and she was of a similar age group...they have no children but are blissfully happy.No one has the authority to say a...

Why on earth do you seem to think that if a woman is still unmarried by her mid 30's the chances of finding available mates reduces to almost zero.Thats a harmful thing to be saying her as there are women who are on this forum maybe over 30 and single..so are you trying to imply that they now...

Exactly...we are wired by God to find someone if the opposite sex attractive and that's a universal quality which we all have.I have has some churches preach that such things are of the flesh and not of God..🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️..yes I know there is a call to be holy in that regard and an appropriateness...

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Why do you somehow think there is an air of self righteousness?Where are you picking that up from?, I wasn't talking about physical attraction but responding to your comment that's all.God doesn't expect us to be in denial of the basic humanistic qualities that we have within us because he is...

Hi my dear..I hope they will elaborate soon for you.I know that when you are the only Christian in a family it can be really tough and you can feel so very alone with no one to share your life experiences with about God and about lifes hardships. You are 20 years old and plenty of years ahead of...

Great post as it brings into focus the reality of how many of our lives have turned out this far compared to how we expected it to. I most definitely expected to be married by now with kids and possibly be involved with running a music studio for talented Christian singers I also expected my...

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Thanks so much..I really appreciate this..🙏🙏👍👍👍.There must be a way to give an update about the little boys progress..I will just create a new thread as part of the testimony section.

Wonderful commentary my dear and your are totally right in that sense.The role of a husband and wife should be kinda explained in singles forums in local churches with a great Q@A to help people understand what the roles are and what the roles are not. Christ and the church is the metaphor used...

Yes its interesting too that some women dont wanna be rescued or protected by a guy coz some feel they have coped with life without him in the past as Christian(long before they met him)..been through hardships without him,had to pick themselves up and keep going without him and have coped with...

Very true..coz preceiving the man as "The protector"..can create a subtle form of idolatry if not managed wisely with false expectations being place upon him by his spouse,in laws,society to the point he ends up feeling stressed out and feels like a failure and has no one to show he feels as he...

Thanks for your comments my dear.I guess some people can feel either empowered by how they look standing physically alongside their spouse or feel somehow inferior... I mean the media keeps calling Tom cruise point sized..Kevin hart tiny..ect.🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️😉...we live in a society that in a horrible...

AMEN..🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thank you my dear sister.😊