I've held a purse, bought various women's products-even wore a pink bathrobe once, when a lady was kind enough to wash my clothes when I didn't have time to go home and get a change(she did take a picture of me though, to show her sisters).
Having done all of the above, I've learned that God forgives fornication and divorce. I'm pretty sure he's ok with remarriage too. If you're in a church that does all you say-then maybe it's time for a new church? I guess if you blasphemed the Holy Spirit or did whatever the unpardonable sin...
I agree that being single sucks(especially if you're married), but I've learned that being in a bad relationship sucks even more. I'm of the mind that if we focus as much as we can on our relationship with God-then he'll give us what we need. :cool: