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  1. love_comes_softly

    Tired!

    I soo understand your feeling of tiredness. I pray the Lord lift you up, encourage you and give you the energy for the next season in your life. The Lord has used you to encourage and lift others up, I pray you will feel that too.
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    Prayer request

    Praying that the Lord open doors for new oppurtunities for you and I pray for an abundance of peace while you finish out your time at the current job. The nature of your job may feel negative, but I pray that those you deal with, will treat you with kindness.
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    I Don't Like Men

    Vineyard, I'm sorry you feel this way and in many ways I can understand that there are endless amounts of reasons that anyone could feel this way. It doesn't even matter why you feel/felt this way in the moment. The thing that strikes me when I read your original post was that you've asked how...
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    What is the biggest age gap you would consider when dating someone?

    I would be with a guy my age to probably 10ish years older, maybe a tad bit more. I couldn’t be with someone my parents age, that would be odd. I also can’t picture myself dating a guy younger than me.
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    What Are Some Habits, Quirks, or Things About You That Might Take a Spouse Some Getting Used To?

    That would drive me crazy. 😂 I don’t even like the noise of someone cutting their nails.
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    What Are Some Habits, Quirks, or Things About You That Might Take a Spouse Some Getting Used To?

    I love this thread @seoulsearch! I am a very light sleeper, so I use a fan at bed time, even when it’s freezing. I don’t do well when someone wakes me up. When I don’t feel good, I’m kinda emotional. I’m not a fan of shoes in the house. I will keep thinking.
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    How Many Singles Here Just Eat or Drink Straight Out of the Container -- and Then Put it BACK?!

    I’m a rule follower at heart. Even when I’m the only one to use any food item or container, I use it as if someone else were going to. 😂 Double dipping makes me cringe.
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    Midnight Confessions

    I definitely know what mean. It reminds me of a conversation I’ve had about disappointment. It was said that when we are disappointed in people, it’s because we have misplaced our hope in that person rather than in God. I found that to be really interesting and powerful. I still ponder it. I...
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    Midnight Confessions

    Those are difficult hours. I always wondered how hard it would be to function around others when their schedules are so different from your own. Praise God for work though, you are right!
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    Midnight Confessions

    Is this because of your job?
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    Is anybody listening to me?

    Great topic! The thing about people listening to one another is that it is entirely a choice. We choose what we want to listen to, which means it’s inevitable that there will be people that don’t listen to us for endless amounts of reasons. I wouldn’t take that personally. I’m not sure I...
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    Midnight Confessions

    People fascinate me.
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    "Bank Accounts Should Be Combined In Marriage." So How Do You Feel About Combining Debts?

    When you get married, you share everything including bank accounts and debts. There is a problem if you don’t trust the person you are with to share either of these two things. I’d prefer not to be in debt, but there are endless amounts of reasons for people to have debt. I would not marry...
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    Are you happy?

    I am where the Lord has me in life. Is it where I pictured myself? No, honestly it’s not, but I praise God that my relationship with Him is strong. My family is healthy, I have everything I need and I’m surrounded by lots of love. Are there things I would change? Yes, of course. I think I’d...
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    Would you consider a woman in her 20s twice divorced

    I pray the Lord give you peace in the direction you are to go. I wholeheartedly believe that the Lord will lead and direct our path if we seek His way and will. Focus on that. Put God first and He will show you what to do. You are feeling unsettled for a reason. Apart from that, my only other...
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    Pen pals?

    I love this! Snail mail is my favorite. I have Hello Kitty stationary, a childhood friend of mine sent it to me. I only use it one rare occasions. 💗
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    Ladies, What Kind of Hairstyles Do You Like on Guys?

    The teacher part of me wants to emphasize following directions... “LADIES, What Kind of Hairstyles Do You Like on Men?” It has been quite amusing and entertaining to read this thread. I think it’s a great representation of the communication issues people have in general. :D:D
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    Ladies, What Kind of Hairstyles Do You Like on Guys?

    I love thinking about the other side of things. Good job @seoulsearch! My number one preference is that it's clean. I find myself attracted to short hair or a bit longer (like some length, a few inches). I'm not the biggest fan of long hair, but there are some guys who can pull it off...