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    "I Forgive You" -- But What If You Haven't Done Anything Wrong?

    I don’t feel like I’d ever randomly just comment “I forgive you” unless it was clear what I was talking about. If someone were to say that to me, this would be my response: “I’m glad, do what you need to do.” 😁
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    Some Questions for Singles Who Have Been Hit On By People Who Are Married or Attached...

    Early one morning I went to the store before heading to work. I ran into my student’s father. He commented on my smile and asked if he could have my phone number, saying he’d like to hang out sometime. I was very obviously shocked and asked “aren’t you married???” I had just met with him and his...
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    "Women Only Want Money"; "Men Only Want Sex." How Do You Cope With These Assumptions?

    Great thread! I think the assumptions you shared are ones I have heard before. I don’t believe they are necessarily always true, but for some definitely. The main thing I wanted to respond to is about assumptions/proving oneself. I never want to have to prove myself to someone. If they assume...
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    What is the single most single thing you have done this year? 2021(non singles welcome too)

    As of late, I’d say spending the entire day reading. 💗 Not that I couldn’t do that if I were taken, but the time is probably not going to be there.
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    Ask the user below you a question

    A pillow. How many siblings do you have?
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    Rate your day from 1 to 10 (POLL) (you can even vote again tomorrow)

    i’d say it was pretty good. There were bumps in the road, but everything worked out and I’m feeling hopeful. : )
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    Midnight Confessions

    When I reach a certain point at night, it’s hard to recall what took place during that time period the next day.
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    Midnight Confessions

    Over the past few months I’ve had some chest pains and tightening. My doctor says my heart isn’t resting. I’ve never experienced anxiety like this before. Praise God for this experience because it’s really helped me understand how real stress and anxiety can be for others. I know what I’ve...
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    Midnight Confessions

    My mind is full. I’d like to empty it or press refresh.
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    Midnight Confessions

    I was thinking about something similar, as I’ve been praying about something for some time and it was all heading in one direction. Recently something took place that to me, is a door closing. I’m thankful that He closes doors for us, but realized that I may have been confusing what I was...
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    Are You More Attracted to the Happy-Go-Lucky Type, or the Tortured Soul?

    I want to be with someone who is real and honest about how they are feeling, whether it's option 1 or 2. I think I prefer that they are on the positive side, but that doesn't mean they have to be upbeat and happy all the time. I'm attracted to those that can find the good and hope in even hard...
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    Too many relationships

    Our most important relationship is and will always be with the Lord. Pray and seek the Him. Focus on Him and then listen to what He shows and tells you in regards to whether you should marry again. Only He knows your situation, your heart and what you should be doing. Praying you find peace in...
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    matching?

    I'm wondering if many of those matches are commonly seen together because those jobs and professions often work together, so it's only natural that you'd be with someone you already spend a great deal of time with.
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    Sadness

    Please pray that the Lord have His way in our lives. I know He’s in control of everything and that everything will work out for the good of those who love Him. Praise the Lord. I personally have been struggling with sadness, unexplainable sadness. I know that’s kinda the state of things right...
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    Is it a bad witness for a Christian pastor to marry someone 30 years younger?

    First thought, 30 years seems unwise and irresponsible, so I don’t think it would be alright.
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    If 2020 was a food.....

    Great idea, @Pipp, but goodness did this thread make me gag! 🤮😂 I would have to say that if 2020 were a food for me it would be Asparagus. Smells so yummy and is just a stringy mess. With some questionable after effects. 🤷‍♀️
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    Be My Guest! (It's the Singles Forum Personality Test, Part 3.)

    I agree Melita, it depends on the family/friends. If I’m not super close I’d be a B without technology though. I just want to be behind the scenes. I do like to help, but not to the point of making anyone uncomfortable. If I’m at a good friend or family members house where I feel...
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    Bon Appetit! (It's the Singles Forum Personality Test, Part 2.)

    I’d have to go with ordering pizza and calling it good. I’d be so stressed meeting his parents that I wouldn’t want to mess up the food. I could make a salad to go with the pizza. I was tempted to say go to a restaurant, but I like the idea of a more personal/private setting. I suppose I...