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  1. Subhumanoidal

    I am really going through a lot 🥹

    Hi Sky. Welcome to CC. I'm not a single parent, but I have known many and helped them as best i could. I come on a few times and day, for a bit, if you're looking for someone to talk to.
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    Welcome to the First CC White Elephant Gift Exchange! (All Are Invited to Play!)

    I'll grab the potty trainer for the Terminator-esqe cyborg I'm building. For him to potty train. And I leave behind a broken cyborg eye.
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    Welcome to the First CC White Elephant Gift Exchange! (All Are Invited to Play!)

    I use the nose hair trimmer, then leave it for the next person. 🥸
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    Do You Keep Songs from Sad, Challenging Times/Bad Relationships in Your Playlist?

    Yes. We could call it the Titanic Support Group... wait... that might give the wrong impression...
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    Do You Keep Songs from Sad, Challenging Times/Bad Relationships in Your Playlist?

    That same song was on my list for years too. I had no interest in the movie but my fiance did, so we went. It's the only time I ever watched that movie so I connect that song to her. The same fiance that ended up ghosting me. It took me a long time to fully get past that relationship and hearing...
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    I'm so bad with social connections that it even shows through when I pray for someone else.

    Have you ever considered none of those things have anything to do with you or your prayers? That maybe those people made their own bad choices? Praying for them is one thing, but that's not going to make them make better choices. They have the free will to do whatever they want and prayer isn't...
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    Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert -- Which One Are You? Or Are You Different Things in Different Situations?

    I've thought about this on and off for years, since, and never could come up with a definitive answer. Somehow performing with a band just made me more confident. I did love being in a band and being on stage. It had been my dream, back then, to become popular enough to make a living out of it.
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    Introvert, Extrovert, or Ambivert -- Which One Are You? Or Are You Different Things in Different Situations?

    Introvert here. When I was a teen I was an introvert, but under the right circumstances could bust out of my shell. A funny example is when my youth pastor asked us leaders to speak in front of the youth group. A mini sermon. It was only 10-15 people and I was an absolute mess I was so nervous...
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    Hosting Down

    I can't help but believe the owner, who has been running CC for over 20 years, needs to be made aware of a need to updgrade. This site is actually much slower, in terms of users, than it used to be. And it handled the traffic fine. So I'm doubting that's the problem. Also I don't see requiring...
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    Do You Keep Songs from Sad, Challenging Times/Bad Relationships in Your Playlist?

    Thanks. And I know you do, Seoul, and I do appreciate it and your commitment to continue.
  11. Subhumanoidal

    Age Difference

    You can date people of any (legal) age. Is it always a good idea to go to the extreme with it? Probably not. But 10 years is fully reasonable. My own personal limit is no younger than 10 years below me. And, when younger I dated women 10 years above me. Of course some age differences may be...
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    Do You Keep Songs from Sad, Challenging Times/Bad Relationships in Your Playlist?

    I don't really do playlists, I rather prefer listening to entire albums. I don't have any songs, currently, that I can think of, I am affected by, sadness wise, anymore. Or at least not related to my past. I do still have some songs that affect my depression, but those also tend to be a bit...
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    Meeting Sites

    Wouldn't say anything is wrong with it, per se, but I personally prefer not to look, or not look too hard. I'd rather let attraction form through friendship. This removes a lot of pressure and fakeness that dating can lead to. And let's you not rush into things and you get to form a romantic...
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    Mental health support website?

    Try www.nami.org Not sure that they have a forum, but can direct you to a lot of resources. They've been around a long time and are reputable.
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    What Is the Best Bread Product for a Breakfast Sandwich -- and Why?

    Another miracle whipper 🥳 They seem few and far between. My second favorite is basically the same as yours. But bacon, not ham, and I just use American cheese slices haha. MW over mayo, but happy with either. My favorite that I've not had in over a decade was a breakfast burrito I used to get in...
  16. Subhumanoidal

    No American Women, You are not Oppressed!!

    The 4b movement isn't new here in the US. It was a year or two ago that I first heard women saying they were going to follow it. But it seemed to fizzle out. It originated in Korea. The popularity of the movement there has been way overhyped. It's shown as this craze that a large portion of...
  17. Subhumanoidal

    Smooth Talk, Flattery, Narcissism and Control

    If I recall correctly there was a lot of abuse in your past. This may be why you attract abusers now. Abuse survivors minds are altered from all the abuse. And that affects things such as body language, how you speak, especially about yourself. Abusive people can pick up on these signals and...