Dating

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I'm talking with this girl from my church right now. We are both very Christ led in all that we do and want a Godly relationship.

We are about to start dating and I want some ideas for dates, any suggestions??
 
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Hi ChurchDrummer, welcome to the site!

Ladies generally like it when you choose dates that demonstrate you know them as a person and have paid attention to what they are drawn to. If she has mentioned she likes animals then she might enjoy a trip to a petting zoo, animal sactuary, or a farm that accepts visitors. Or if she likes learning then maybe a museum, historical site, or trivia night at a coffee shop. If she's competitive then maybe an escape room or laser tag. If she likes nature then a hike or picnic would be fun!

For me personally, it has nothing to do with how expensive the date is, or being "impressed" with something elaborate. I just like to know the guy has paid attention and was able to come up with something we'd both enjoy.

All the best to you and your lady! :cool::giggle::coffee:
 
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You should take her someplace really cheap, then after she breaks up with you, you won't have your dignity, but you'll still have some money!

Just kidding.

Ya know... mostly just kidding.

Yeah, mostly just kidding.

Mostly.

: )
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Seriously now...
just go do something fun, and be yourself, and don't overthink everything.

A girl is going out with you because she likes you.
So just be you... and go do something fun.

A nice girl doesn't want to be impressed, she just wants your attention, and she wants to get to know you.
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But two layers of deodorant is still a good idea.
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