Is it ok for Christian Men to be in ministry to immodest women?

True but there are some very revealing clothes that are clearly not covering a woman’s body up. I also think that other certain circumstances affect what is right in this situation, for example, if the woman is young and attractive then it’s wise to leave other Christian women to minister because Jesus said whoever even looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery in his heart, so it seems wise to avoid being put in this predicament potentially, as this is very dangerous for marriages/relationships and not worth the risk.

...."Hey man, your attire is distracting to the wimmens, and quite frankly, draws the attention of the other guys as much... for the love of God, try on these khakis!"

What if a man walked into a church wearing speedos? Wouldn't someone at least comment to him that a brother would be glad to provide him a decent pair of trousers?

I would like to know your thoughts on this or whether it is better for Christian women to do this ministry since the way people dress in these days is so revealing…especially if Christian wives/ girlfriends feel it is unwise for their men to do this….

I would like to know your thoughts on this or whether it is better for Christian women to do this ministry since the way people dress in these days is so revealing…especially if Christian wives/ girlfriends feel it is unwise for their men to do this….

While I agree that many women dress provocatively, we also (as men) need to change the way we "see" women... I fully understand the physiological differences between the way men and women are sexually aroused, but there is also the "self control" aspect of it.
If I cannot see an attractive woman, dressed provocatively, without immediately thinking lustful thoughts, then it is my contention that there is a flaw in myself... otherwise, we need to go the way of the strict Muslims... cover all women from head to toe.

Men need to learn self control in physical and mental areas. I can look at an attractive woman, dressed provocatively and not lust... but it is a mental/spiritual issue. While it would be "better" to not deliberately put myself in those situations constantly, the occasional need to do that should be controllable through mental/spiritual discipline.

I also believe that it is normal to see an attractive woman, and appreciate/enjoy the fact that she is attractive, with out thinking lustfully about her.

I appreciate a lot of what you said. A verse came to mind also; ‘Beware you stand lest you fall.’ I think it is playing with fire to appreciate the beauty of another woman expecting not to lust after her. This reminds me of a an awesome verse when Job said,’ I have made a covenant with my eyes, then why should I look upon a young woman?(the original Hebrew wording says this).
What a rare man Job was. This is the kind of man many of us Christian women desire to be married to.

Yes, Job was rare.... they even wrote a book about him...

I agree that there are dangers of slipping.... we as flawed humans have "up" days, and "down" days, spiritual discipline-wise.

I'm certainly not advocating seeking out scantily clad young women, simply to enjoy the view... I simply wanted to make the point that a man who exercises spiritual discipline does not have to clap both hands over his eyes and run away screaming if a semi-naked woman walks by. It is possible to enjoy the beauty of God's creation without "losing it". Not everything has to lead to sex...

I also remember that younger men have a much more difficult time with sexual thoughts than we more, um, "seasoned" men do. I still believe that it all gets back to our spiritual/mental attitudes.

I would not want to be married to a man who chooses to appreciate the beauty of other women. 🙂

I would not want to be married to a man who chooses to appreciate the beauty of other women. 🙂

Well, everybody has their own hang-ups, I suppose. Good luck with finding a man that does not notice a beautiful woman. Even gay men notice and appreciate a beautiful woman.

I agree with @Lynx .... there is a back story here.

And, as a humorous extension to this story... my wife used to get miffed if she thought I noticed another woman. I told her that it is just natural to notice "attractive" things, whether people or scenery or cars....whatever. I told her that women looked at men almost as much as men looked at women. She disagreed.
A few weeks later, we were driving down the road, and there was a young, buff guy running down the edge of a park area.... no shirt, little nylon running shorts, etc.... as we went by, I noticed out of the corner of my eye my wife swiveling her head to "notice" him as we went by. I didn't say anything... didn't bother me a bit.
The next time the topic came up of men noticing women, I reiterated my statement that women watch men just like men watch women... she said "no they don't".... I said, "you mean, like that guy that was jogging in the park a few days ago?"
Her face turned a little red, then she started laughing (along with me)..... she said, "well, I guess women notice, too...." We've had no further issues with that topic....

Noticing is normal.... what you DO with that "noticing" in your mind is where the problems can start.

I’m a not so young woman and I have to be dead honest and admit that I don’t necessarily think bad of men not making a covenant with their eyes. But that’s just me.

The husband and wife team is a good model for ministry IMHO. They should not minister separately as temptation may become an issue. There are many pastors who do counseling and when alone with women it destroys the best of intentions.

Ministry is a broad term though.
There's a difference between preaching the gospel to every creature and long term marriage counseling for instance.
Yes, every born again man woman and child is commanded to lead the lost of every age, and person to Christ, man, woman and child.

Jesus was our in example as we see with the woman at the well. I don't know that she was modest. We just know that she had a lot of husbands and guy friends. Jesus didn't forbid her to speak. He did not forbid the children to come unto Himself.

If preaching the Gospel in a particular environment is likely to stumble someone into sin then they shouldn’t preach in that environment; there are certain environments where it would be right for women specifically to do this work.

I would not want to be married to a man who chooses to appreciate the beauty of other women. 🙂

I'm getting the strong impression there's a story here.

What happened to you?

The way you keep talking about this, it's like you're talking from some personal trauma.