I don't have contempt for God's grace. I have problems with the parody of grace that you are presenting as if it were biblical.
What have you ever done whether good or evil, that you believe God did not decree it, did not empower you to do it, and did not put the desire into your heart to want to do it?
As Shakespeare famously said:
All the world’s a stage,
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances;
And one man in his time plays many parts...
We mere mortals are merely players on the world stage of God's Redemptive History. We neither wrote the script or are directing our own roles or the roles of anyone else. But we do
willingly play our many parts -- whether as saints or sinners. No matter what role God has appointed for us, we're all in!
And the Holy Word of God bears this truth out! I don't have to rely on Shakespeare -- as brilliant as his philosophical insight was.
Job 23:13-14
13 "But He is unique and who can turn Him?
And what His soul desires, that He does.
14 "For He performs what is appointed for me,
And many such decrees are with Him.
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And,
Job 12:11-25
11 "Does not the ear test words,As the palate tastes its food? 12 "Wisdom is with aged men, With long life is understanding. 13 "With Him are wisdom and might; To Him belong counsel and understanding. 14 "Behold, He tears down, and it cannot be rebuilt; He imprisons a man, and there can be no release. 15 "Behold, He restrains the waters, and they dry up; And He sends them out, and they inundate the earth. 16 "With Him are strength and sound wisdom, The misled and the misleader belong to Him. 17 "He makes counselors walk barefoot, And makes fools of judges. 18 "He loosens the bond of kings, And binds their loins with a girdle. 19 "He makes priests walk barefoot, And overthrows the secure ones. 20 "He deprives the trusted ones of speech, And takes away the discernment of the elders. 21 "He pours contempt on nobles, And loosens the belt of the strong. 22 "He reveals mysteries from the darkness,And brings the deep darkness into light. 23 "He makes the nations great, then destroys them; He enlarges the nations, then leads them away. 24 "He deprives of intelligence the chiefs of the earth's people, And makes them wander in a pathless waste. 25 "They grope in darkness with no light, And He makes them stagger like a drunken man.
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And,
Ps 37:23
23 The steps of a man are established by the Lord;
And He delights in his way.
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And,
Ps 110:3
3 Thy people will volunteer freely in the day of Thy power;
In holy array, from the womb of the dawn,
Thy youth are to Thee as the dew.
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And,
Prov 16:1
6 The plans of the heart belong to man,
But the answer of the tongue is from the Lord.
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And,
Prov 16:4
4 The Lord has made everything for its own purpose,
Even the wicked for the day of evil.
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And,
Prov 16:9
9 The mind of man plans his way,
But the Lord directs his steps.
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And,
Prov 19:21
21 Many are the plans in a man's heart,
But the counsel of the Lord, it will stand.
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And,
Prov 16:33
33 The lot is cast into the lap,
But its every decision is from the Lord.
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You see....there's no such thing as luck or chance or coincidence. These are but mere constructs of finite, carnal minds in their vain attempts to explain the incomprehensible, such as the thoughts and ways of God which are unlike ours (Isa 55:8-9).
And re Prov 16:1, 9; 19:21, did God consult with Job before he decided to test him by tossing his godly servant to the roaring lion to torment to see whether or not Job would remain faithful to God or curse him?
Or what about Abimelech in Gen 20 who had grand designs on Abraham's wife Sara, yet God did not let the pagan king touch her? Was the king just a puppet whose strings God pulled?
Or what about Balaam who was commissioned by the wicked Moabite king Balak to curse Israel (Num 22) even though God had already blessed them? But Balaam refused to go with Moabite princes that Balak had sent because God would not let him go. But finally God relented and permitted Balaam to return to Balak on the condition that Balaam obey God completely. But even so, God was "very angry" when he departed. But Balaam still could not curse Israel, for he could only speak what God commanded him! Balaam, too, was just another "puppet" on God's string?
Or what about the self-willed prophet Jonah who clearly had his own ideas on how to deal with the pagans in Nineveh? Who won that battle of the wills? Who wound up, after all, preaching the "gospel of repentance" to the Ninevites? I suppose Jonah was just another mindless puppet on a string?
You synergists speak of things you do not know. You try to reduce the Eternal God to the severe limitations of your carnal, finite minds. (Talk about a fool's errand!)
You have no idea at all that God is at once Incomprehensible and Comprehensible. He is the former because He has kept many things hidden from us, so that we'll never understand him exhaustively; and yet he is also the latter because he has revealed many other things to us, which provides us with real and substantial understanding. Have you never read:
Deut 29:29
29 The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may follow all the words of this law?
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What God has kept secret and cannot be known by us and what He has revealed that he wants us to know and understand should inspire fear in our hearts of Him. For his saints, that would be a reverent, awe-struck fear; for sinners it should be the kind of fear that Jesus talked about in Lk 12:5.
Eccl 3:14
14 I know that everything God does will remain forever; there is nothing to add to it and there is nothing to take from it, for God has so worked that men should fear Him.
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Yet sadly, I find so little of the fear of the Lord in the writings of most posters here. Instead, I find rampant idolatry; for many have created God in their own image.. It's no wonder Paul concluded God's indictment against mankind with:
Rom 3:18
18 "There is no fear of God before their eyes."
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