Parents ill treated

I mean... Is your mother actually being a "slut"?

Especially if she was the one in your household to teach about sexual immorality- he would probably see this as a huge betrayal to himself, the entire family and God... and more especially if she's still married to his father.

He shouldn't be the one to (or the one to have to) rebuke his mother... but if no one else does, he isn't wrong for doing so.

Granted, there is probably a more gentle way than calling her a "slut"... but gentle rebuke does not come naturally- Especially to younger people who are used to being rebuked harshly.

I am living in a house which is filled with hate and strife. My mother was ill treated horribly by my brother today. He called her a slut, and all kinds of abuses. And wanted to hit her and I took her in my room and locked her with me. I felt sorrowed of the fact that she was quietly enduring repeated angry abuses again and again and again and it hurt me that my mom was being put up to a treatment as though she has no value. He was being ruthless and unrelenting. I am not happy living in this house. He justified it as 'man's authority' , and says Adam was before Eve, so man is greater and so justifies ill treating all women. Even to his own mother. There are many things I have to say about years of torture and harassment but I am just leaving it out. I am trusting in the Lord's protection. But my heart is not feeling good after all this. He has threatened bad things to me in the past and for no reason targets me again and again. I want to step away from this house. And feeling unsafe everyday.

She was clear the woman is being abused and threatened.

Why is the brother in the home at all?

That would be her husband's place. No one else's business.

But I don't see that as the situation. It looks like abuse and nothing to do with what the mother is doing.

if he is prone to violence it might be difficult to deal with him, I don't know your family situation, age, financial situation etc but I think it is for him to leave the house not you. you should not have to suffer any violence. if he is violent again, tell him you will call law enforcement.

No she wasn't. She said "abuse" and "threaten" but never said how. Some people think raising your voice and sounding mean is "abuse".
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Use your brain. Nobody calls their own mother a "slut" unless they're insane- or their mother has engaged in some kind of sexual immorality
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- possibly permanently destroying their family and everyone's lives in the family as they know it.
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-Why not? Why is the OP in the home? Why is the mother in the home? We're clearly missing some background.

This is probably one of the most common and dumbest lies about adultery.

When you commit adultery that is betraying your children as well- you are ending harmony in their home and destroying their family. Their life will never be the same. They have every reason to be disgusted with you.

Well, that's because you made a lot of assumptions and answered without asking questions.

"He called her a slut, and all kinds of abuses. And wanted to hit her"... "she was quietly enduring repeated angry abuses again and again and again"... "he has threatened bad things to me"... feeling unsafe everyday.

So "use your brain" is something a teen would say.

There is no evidence for that based on what the OP said. You're jumping to conclusions.

Because one is assuming they are all grown adults.

A grown son living at home is more questionable than a grown daughter. It's more likely the daughter is a caretaker than a son.

Where is a lie in that statement?!

Because you are assuming things the OP never said.

That's correct, that's exactly what YOU did.

You quoting this and turning it red doesn't change anything.

That someone feels fear in the presence of an angry person should be of no surprise... but expressing anger isn't "abuse" especially if they have a legitimate reason to be angry.

"use your brain" is actually a common phrase that simply means to use your own thought process; rather than taking what you're told for granted.

I didn't come to a conclusion- I said "possibly".

Why assume that?

Based on what? It could be the son's home for all we know.

That entire statement is the lie.

"use your brain".

I'd be telling him from the business end of a Winchester rifle.

FYI the business end is the barrel.

He justified it as 'man's authority' , and says Adam was before Eve, so man is greater and so justifies ill treating all women.

I am living in a house which is filled with hate and strife. My mother was ill treated horribly by my brother today. He called her a slut, and all kinds of abuses. And wanted to hit her and I took her in my room and locked her with me. I felt sorrowed of the fact that she was quietly enduring repeated angry abuses again and again and again and it hurt me that my mom was being put up to a treatment as though she has no value. He was being ruthless and unrelenting. I am not happy living in this house. He justified it as 'man's authority' , and says Adam was before Eve, so man is greater and so justifies ill treating all women. Even to his own mother. There are many things I have to say about years of torture and harassment but I am just leaving it out. I am trusting in the Lord's protection. But my heart is not feeling good after all this. He has threatened bad things to me in the past and for no reason targets me again and again. I want to step away from this house. And feeling unsafe everyday.

my dear, i'm afraid i'm not familiar with your country. are there programs or agencies for victims of domestic violence near you?

while most of us in the west will counsel you to contact the authorities, i know it isn't always the best choice when dealing with an abuser. a DV organization is often a better first step, unless there's a threat to life, obviously.

praying for you... ♥

Agreed it seems the problem is much deeper by reading her other posts. Someone professional will have to step in and lend aid.

if the parents will allow it. poor child! something tells me we had better keep praying for her.