Why Don't We Ever Hear About Wives Who Are Addicted to Porn?

What about girlie text porn that says, "You come home from the grocery store. Your husband, well-groomed and well dressed, meets you at the door with a bouquet of roses. Your heart flutters. As he reaches out to grab you, his flexing muscles shred his shirt, exposing his strong arms and newly developed abs. He picks you up and carries you to the bedroom."

The woman can imagine her own husband. Is that against the natural order?

I dont knkw what kind of husband you have and i dont care.
Im talking about cosmo, sex and the city, the view, day time tv what they used to call soap opras. All that stuff is brain rot.

that is not porn thats just fantasy and never happens in real life.

Also the wife would then have to sew up his shirt cos he cant wear a torn shirt to work, plus she has babies and would rather the husband carry the baby to the cot as she has had her hands full

I see a plot holes and no thinking woman would ever think that a real man would ever do that unless they are acting out some cheesy soap opera.

I have done ir minus the flowers and shirt part. I was just dressed okay.

Men are created differently from women. Men are visually stimulated at a much higher degree than women. So the temptation is greater. Women are emotionally stimulated. So a romantic novel/movie or another man who meets those needs when a husband is not, may be the greater temptation.

that doesnt count its just lifting your wife up off the floor and putting her to bed which any husband is supposed to do when shes tired.

I'm a single guy. I've been single all my life. First off, if men lived in a society where we isolate ourselves from the women of the world and live a monastic life like a monk in a society without women, maybe we won't need porn.

I use porn. I struggle with it sometimes. But I wasn't always like that. It's more complicated for me in my life.

We're born with feelings. Attraction is natural. Guys who refrain from porn maybe won't refrain from sleeping with women if they are single? I don't know.

All I know is that we need release for our sexual energy. It's healthy that way. Instead of being sex starved just because we're single and don't have a woman.

Sex isn't a want. It's a human need. It's a primal need.

This is where I accept I am a sinner and need God's grace to keep from watching porn.

Yeah, I get it. Men don't need porn and if a man gets married, it doesn't mean porn is going to get out of a man's life.

It takes work to kick the habit.

But sexual energy is always there and according to science, it is either diverted or discharged.

This is my experience. I've lived through my teen years without porn and it made me very very awkward with girls my age. Especially when I lacked proper sex education and parenting on this subject matter and a healthy social life which I wouldn't get till college.

Especially when you are raised in a boys only school and have a dysfunctional family to boot.

The only source there is on the subject is the internet.

Porn is not accurate on how sex happens. Everything is fake in it. Just like everything is fake in a choreographed fight scene in a movie.

It's all just to attract the viewer. I personally use it as a distraction. Is it wrong? Absolutely. I break down and cry sometimes knowing there's no one to share my struggles. I have nobody. Then I realize that this is my lot. Jesus died for my sins. I try and bring it down to a minimum. But that's about all I can do.

Every man's sexual energy is different as is every woman's. People are endowed differently and no two people are the same. People have different needs. And we live in a cruel world which is merciless and often heartbreaking.

If I had a woman, girlfriend or wife, I will commit to kicking the habit. I'd be honest. If the girl doesn't like me for my weaknesses, then she need not stay in my life that way. No need at all. But if she wants to help, then yes. I will kick the habit.

So I think all this should be openly discussed and the partners intending to marry should come to a mutual agreement before marriage.

As for the women watching porn? That's on them. If a woman wanted help letting go, sure the male counterpart would naturally want to help.

Everyone is human :/ If someone is living without porn, Kudos. Job well done. But not everyone can be that way or are that way.

Sexual needs aren't always satisfied for people while they live their lives. Be it being a single man or woman. Or even sometimes in a marriage.

That is why, even in the Bible, it is said... "don't deny yourselves to each other." Married couple have a duty to satisfy each other.

And if men have needs, women aren't any different either. They have needs too. For all of you who say otherwise, God bless you. If you can be that way, well and good. But not everyone can. And what people need are people who will accept them for who they are. Not who they want them to be.

God accepts me just the way I am. Whether anyone else accepts me for who I am or not is their affair.

I'm sure grown up people generally have all seen some porn. It is just too pervasive. Many, and I think most, can walk away from it. But some find seeing any of it too addictive, and they will continue coming to see porn more and more, and their values change with that, with being distorted, and affecting possible relationships with anyone. Those ones will need help, really.

From my observations- while a lot of women seem to have a meltdown or go straight to a divorce lawyer; I think most men would try to fix this sort of thing in-house.

well its on the tv and a lot of parents dont bother to hide it from children, especially if living in a small household they bound to come across it sooner or later. (sexual activity)

Maybe its better it be open than seen as shameful. I think men espeically are just weird about seeing female body parts, like nipples are seen as bad and ought to be hidden on women, but men can go bare chested and nobody will tell them to cover up

it gets to the point of ridiculousness like in muslim countries where all the women go round wearing hijabs and burkas cos a man might see their skin.

In OT times a woman was meant to spend 7 days apart from men once she got her period (she was 'unclean') as I guess they didnt have sanitary undies in those days

She could then let it all hang out and walk wound naked and no man would bother her lol

Then....
This brings up the subject of:

WOMEN ADDICTED TO MAKING PORN

More and more these days women are addicted to producing pornography for the attention it gets them from men (and sometimes women) They seem to post online daily how to access their Only Fans account or some other pay-to-view forum where they can show even more of their sexualized self. Toys and even other men and women. Some have made millions$$$ doing so.

Most make just a few hundred dollars at most but can't resist the attention of posting suggestive pictures online in skimpy attire.

And then these women wonder why no men want to marry them and they can't get a husband.

If some men think these parts ought to be covered in public, that doesn't mean we think they are bad parts.

then why they take photos of it indoors and show everyone then and laugh?

So if its inside its ok, but if its outside its not? What about all the women who need to breastfeed their child, because they are hungry. Should the mum just stay inside and never see anybody?

Women are not interested in taking photos of mens penises. But for some reason, men really want to see womens boobs. Is this what we get for standing on two legs lol

I don't think these women wonder why no men want to marry them and they can't get a husband. Don't assume this

I think these are desperate women who really need the money, find it pays well, and are stuck doing it till they can't do it anymore.

I wonder how JohnDB knows all about this anyway.

If you want to talk about why men would pay $$ for this...then that's worth talking about. Don't blame the women for having breasts.

Because their stories are all over the internet lately....and it's not hard to do the math with the OF website....
How many women have OF sites vx how much $$ OF has paid out. A few make money and the rest just post pictures....that never go away.

Then there's the "Red Pilled" sites that discuss how men have tossed their recently "empowered" wives out and keep the kids.

Then there's the Reddit posts....

Humanity is dying.

Why does Lanolin think women are always innocent and men are always guilty?
Methinks she doth protest too much.