Transgender pain

For example, being called girl. It hurts me to be called girl she ect.

I'm trying to understand how your words are any different than what others have said except they could say it without being rude.

You act like no one else has said what you have said.

We should have pity for the lost, broken hearted and those in suffering. That doesn't mean we have to tolerate or accept sin. Literally no Christian here is accepting transgender as not sinful.

Look

Look at how happy you responded with how much pain I'm in. Credibility zero

Reading through many of the posts, a couple of things seems obvious to me:

1. There is way more going on here than can be helped to any real degree on this thread. There are some deep-seated problems and professional help is necessary unless God does a miracle. A Christian counselor familiar with these issues would be most helpful.

2. Oftentimes, situations are made worse, not better, by well-intentioned people. Certainly a combination of love and truth are necessary for healing, but the misapplication of the two can easily exacerbate the problem. Discernment is necessary to know which and in what order and degree they should be applied.

Having shared this, it's ok to just say...I'm praying for you...to an individual. And if you have to aren't sure whether to make use of love or truth, the one that never fails is love.

If you don't believe a transgender male is a valid male please don't comment I'm in pain and don't want my time wasted

I have been a Christian for 5 years been tortured by transgender pain since 5.
I hate God for ever being born. I love God for loving me while I curse him anyway.

I'm looking for prayers, if this was a right to die state I'd be in heaven with the Almighty God, Jesus, who will take away my tears.

I'm about to undergo 12 weeks of therapy in which I hope to convince my therapist that I have no quality of life, I'm so sickened by my female lie of a body. I want the therapist to then listen to my agony between being transgender and my hatred towards God for it

Honestly, I'm tired of holding back what I really feel. I don't like how the LGBTQ+ are corrupting the church. There are already gay pastors and in other positions of leadership in some of the churches. And they're telling KIDS that you don't have to be the gender you're born with and encourage them at the earliest ages.

And it seems even here, we're shamed to not speak out against it and not be allowed to be angry that this happening. So at this point, I don't care what anyone says anymore. I think a lot of the politeness is also virtue signaling: "Look at me! I can be cool about LGBTQ+ issues!" But I don't think you guys realize that the LGBTQ+ are counting on you to be polite and will try to shame you (as she tried with me) if you're upfront about their sin.


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I don't think very many people here hold back much of anything. But I do think your anger is misdirected. We wrestle not against flesh and blood. Neither this individual, or any LGBTQ+ advocate are the real problem. The problem is spiritual. So, then, is the cure. Anger is only righteous when it addresses the real problem and is in defense of God.
I share your disdain for the perversion of the image of God in mankind. But God, in an instant, could destroy all the works of Satan. What if this individual's sin was lying? Would you be so outraged?

Hey there; so I was raised by grandparents because there was only one can of food in the house so dcf was called and I became adopted by my grandparents.

If you're looking for anti trans arguments, (I'm just defensive) here's some gold you can try and make value out of but it doesn't explain why I get freaked out every time my chest moves as it should be flat. Or why I was screaming in dresses before this happened.

To me, this is piss icing on a poop cake. Can I cuss in here? Idk better not lol.

My biological father didn't want to play with me because according to my grandmother, I was a girl. There was a pedophile my mom had dated but they lie detected my dad, I guess he got scared. So he wouldn't play with me. My grandfather was a good guy, he just didn't care that I screamed in dresses or rather didn't want to confront anyone with anything ever.

To this day yes I still have dad issues, I borrow Johnny 3 Tears from Hollywood Undead as like psychoanalytic transference in which I borrow him as a dad but consciously am aware that he doesn't know me or anything.

Again I had problems with dresses before my dad discarded me or whatever

I was emotionally neglected and gaslighted as a kid, became a person who did that to people, then God healed me so I know what to watch for to make sure the person in conflict with me always feels restored or heard out completely if I can help it

Wanted to address a few of your points. I've tried to kill myself 5 or more times because someone had called me a she or her. When this goes on, I feel uncontrollable pain. You being a woman, what do you know of loss of masculinity that you would die over? I was supposed to be a brother! A son, and I am but ive been stripped of my proof except my pain like touching a hot stove or fire if I were to even remotely entertain the idea of living as female. What challenges do you face as your gender? Do you scream inside when your body isn't built to piss standing up? Do you gasp in horror when your chest moves? No? Do you feel nothing but shame and humiliation to be called girl? Are you repulsed by anything feminine? Now tell me I create my own misery

Well I have to live my life not touching a furnace. Nobody cares to answer what to do about the actual pain that is felt when called she her woman ect it's not normal to feel humiliation from my body either. Something is going on

Okay so the problem is you think I can just go off and live as female. Does your chest hurt you mentally when it so much as moves? I'm already in hell in my mind, so what's an eternity when minutes feel like hours already. I'm facing actual pain. If it didn't hurt so bad I wouldn't chase God down with this issue in these unsupportive forums.

"if this individual's sin was lying? Would you be so outraged?"

I would be upset if they were ADVOCATING for the VIRTUE OF LYING.
That would be a clear problem.
That is what the LGBT community generally does.

Struggling with a sin, and wanting help, is one thing.
Advocating for a sin... that's another thing entirely.

That's all there is to it.

God Bless.

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Repent and God will heal you. Simple as that.


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It's not unusual for people to make allowance for their sin. But why the upset? For their sake? That's admirable. But just being upset? What purpose does this serve? I think people should share truth. I don't think we should be invested in whether it takes hold or not. We plant and water. God is responsible for results. God's word always meets with its intended results. Acceptance of God's word, then, isn't always God's goal. Some things are hard to hear and some truths will never be accepted. But I do believe our manner of delivering truth may give us future opportunities to share or possibly severely limit our ability to do so.

It is not as simple as that.

True, God made her correctly, but there is obviously some genuine issue that is troubling her. You being so harsh is not helping a bit. In fact, you need to repent for being such an inhuman being.

I don't think very many people here hold back much of anything. But I do think your anger is misdirected. We wrestle not against flesh and blood. Neither this individual, or any LGBTQ+ advocate are the real problem. The problem is spiritual. So, then, is the cure. Anger is only righteous when it addresses the real problem and is in defense of God.
I share your disdain for the perversion of the image of God in mankind. But God, in an instant, could destroy all the works of Satan. What if this individual's sin was lying? Would you be so outraged?