I really really need a husband!!

so why do they need a wife? Cant they just hire a mistress or several. They can afford it, just know if you do marry a sugar daddy you probably wont be the first wife.

This is good entertainment.

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Those types of women probably won't care if they're not the first wife (or second, or third, or fourth, or....) just as long as they don't have to work or cook or clean or tend children, and just be able to buy whatever they want. That's what gold diggers do.

I think some rich men marry a trophy wife just so they can show they can snag a beautiful wife. Not that they actually care about them.

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oh ok

Is it like those wedding cake toppers. The trophy wives. Or is it more like the Academy Awards.

Anyway, has the OP tried Hire-a-Hubby. Im sure they can do the Disney Movie thing and would make a change from cleaning out drains and fixing cupboards and mowing lawns.

I thought a sugar daddy was just another name for a pimp.

I though gold diggers went mining for gold but here, they closed the gold mines down because they destroy the forest, the same as the gum diggers did here, though the timber millers were worse as they cut down all the trees and wasted a lot of land.

You cant dig for gold anymore, in nz you can try goldpanning though some of the rivers still have some but they are very minute particles. Jewellers prefer silver its a more workable material.

People do dig for diamonds so not sure why people arent called 'diamond diggers'

A sucker is born every minute,so you never know.

A sugar daddy is a rich guy who is willing to pay for everything a woman wants if she will be his girlfriend.

Difference is a sugar daddy PAYS money. A pimp GETS money.

You can find a religious man who is not attracted to women but also not involved in gay acts. Since you are not interested in that, you have to find someone who doesnt find you attractive that way.

He also needs to be over 190 cm. Because I am a shallow woman who only likes tall men.

That is hilarious. Thank you.

Is it so you can wear higher heels?
But then what is with the Disney obssession. What if he prefers Dreamworks. Or Anime?

Also, what can you buy from Target. I thought you would set your sights a bit higher, and go on a spending spree at Myers.

I thnk you soulmate resides somewhere in Queensland Australia, because of the Target stores and proximity to Dreamworld.

I could be wrong though, maybe its really Orlando, Florida. Theres Targets in the US too.

Maybe just find a husband who works is a Target manager and can give you his staff discount? Then you can achieve your dreams of being a lazy housewife with curlers in your hair watching Disney +.
You wont see him much cos he works so hard and lies to you about being a virgin but hes so believable and gives you lots of hush money so you never let on....that you know that he knows that you know

believe you me....
THIS is equivalent to a dozen +++ paying, out of home jobs...
no employer could ever pay your mom what she's worth.

I always thought I'd be a stay-at-home mom as well, but it didn't work out that way.

Kudos and prayers for you, Godsgirl!!!

I'm sorry for all the struggles you are going through (I'm trying to keep up with your posts, but am sorry I've probably missed some.)

God bless you for always faithfully serving your family. <3

my mum stayed at home too but when were old enough to go to school, she went to work to earn enough. money to pay for our university fees. Must mums do stay home to look after their children until they old enough to be independent. I dont see thats a problem, many part time work was available back then that had school hours, so mums would be home. But then my dad did shift work in the evenig so was home during the day.

That to me was NORMAL. Grandparents couldnt live with us. We didnt have nannies. Whats is this thing where you have babies and abandon them and dont think they need looking after when they are very young? Someone needs to do it. By the time they reach school age, they can walk or ride there on the their own, with siblings or organise buddies and babysitters for them if they under fourteen, and by sixteen the can be driving a car. Many children grow up that way learning to fend for themselves because parents cant do literally EVERYTHING for them. However if they sick they can be helpless and rely on you.

If your parents both worked say in a shop or owned a business you worked with them many a child has been a slave to their parents lol And you CAN have a home business you know.

Farmers all work from home.,,they may be outside the house, but their work is just literally outside their door. Mums do go OUTSIDE sometimes. Why do people think housewives should stay indoors all the time I dont know. In case they get robbed? Dont people have dogs? Anyway, why couples dont take turns looking after their own children I do not know...what tends to happen is some controlling husbands just dump EVERYTHING, all the childcare on the mother/wife. Um hello...you a dad too.

I essentially had a stay at home dad for many of my school years....while I am glad I never went home to an empty house I believe it would have been better for him (and the family) if he worked. My mom wasnt a stay at home mom, she likes to dress and go to work and I don't believe I have negative feelings towards her about this. However, for the first few years of my memory such as kindergarten and up to 2nd grade I did live at my grandma's and aunt's place and went to school near them. So during this period I bonded with my grandma and aunt in a way that most kids would not experience if they lived only with their parents. My grandpa was much older so we did not interact as much. So I am grateful for this experience/memories as well. My takeaway is it doesnt matter too much who is taking care of the child, as long as she is very loved and not neglected.

I loved my grandma when she moved closer to us in the same street and would run away from home to spend time with her lol. Because she didnt often come to our house as that would annoy my mum. I didnt know they didnt really get on that well. My grandma couldnt speak english and I couldnt speak chinese lol