Struggling reading through romans 8 & 9 and Calvinism.

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Welcome. thats how it is. the bible teaches its God who saves, who grants repentance who gives faith who gives life. this is how God gets all the glory and no one can boast that they were smart enough to believe while that idiot next door didnt figure it out.

embrace the truth, don't reject it. thats my advice. the bible doesn't teach a human will that isnt bound by sin. we all have a will and use it freely. sometimes you read something from the bible that seems like God is reacting to it, but then you read another verse on the subject and notice hey, it was all predestined anyway.

Psalms 105:24-25 And the LORD made His people very fruitful, more numerous than their foes, whose hearts He turned to hate His people, to conspire against His servants.

here is another example. from free willism perspective..
What’s funny is the path God has taken me on to get here. I married the secretly Calvinist son of a freewill baptist preacher (we still attend the freewill church) and now that I am questioning, my husband has started leaning towards Arminianism 😂
Oh well.. we learn and study together. I normally go to him with all my questions but it’s nice to hear from others too
 

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There are many tough questions that Calvinism cannot succinctly answer using the Bible.
Those who wish to know the truth should carefully compare Calvin's actual commentaries on Gospel passages with his Institutes and TULIP. Calvin firstly did a proper biblical interpretation e.g. John 3:16 and all Gospel passages, then turned around and contradicted everything he had written. Why he would do something like that is mind boggling.
 
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I'd avoid becoming a Calvinist for the same reason I'd avoid becoming a Wesleyan, Parhamite or anything else. It paints you into a corner and creates division in the body. I just study God's word and let it teach me.
we are the ones who create division in the body.. there are already people on here calling names and getting angry (not you) we are all believers and part of the family but there will always be disagreements. It comes down to how we handle them
 

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we are the ones who create division in the body..
Amen to that, sis... perhaps you should re-think the whole "am I Calvinist or Arminian" question.

NEITHER of those terms are in scripture.. We were not called to follow Calvin, or any other.... from Paul's letter to Corinth...

"11 For I have been informed concerning you, my brothers and sisters, by Chloe’s people, that there are quarrels among you. 12 Now I mean this, that each one of you is saying, “I am [i]with Paul,” [j]or “I am [k]with Apollos,” [l]or “I am [m]with [n]Cephas,” [o]or “I am [p]with Christ.” 13 [q]Has Christ been divided? Paul was not crucified for you, was he? Or were you baptized [r]in the name of Paul? "

It is my belief that we are called to simply be Christians... we follow Christ.
 

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Welcome to CC.
Wouldn’t our choice to believe be a work?
Definitely not. Jesus did all the "work" when He hung on the Cross for us. Our part is to simply accept Jesus as our Lord and Savior. Calvinism denies men this choice. It says that some men are just born to go to Heaven while other men are born predestined to go to Hell. This is neither the teaching of Paul nor Jesus nor the Bible. Calvinism is anti-Gospel.
 
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The more I read the more I lean towards Calvinism. I can’t wrap my head around it. Wouldn’t our choice to believe be a work? where does free will come in and what does the Bible say about it?? Any help is appreciated
The best i can figure from reading the bible is that man rejects God by his "free will" and is doomed, but is saved by God' s will.
 

oyster67

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@smmartin0507 welcome to CC. Calvinism is one of the most divisive issues in Christendom. I hate Calvinism yet I cannot deny what Scripture says about the elect, and I struggle with it.
It is not complicated at all. It is a fact that the group of believers (called the Church) is elect and predestined for Heaven. Nothing can snatch her out of God's hand. Jesus calls all to open the door and come in and be a part of this group. There is nothing complicated about the Gospel. Calvinism is a false Gospel.

Revelation 3:20
“Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.”
 

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Don't be swayed by the so-called Christians on this site. Be swayed by the scripture presented and make your own decision.

Rom 9: 11 ( For the children being not yet born, neither having done any good or evil, that the purpose of God according to election might stand, not of works, but of Him that calleth)
This verse shows that God has a purpose in the history of mankind and is aware of past, present, and future. Those elected are not elected because of anything that they do but simply because God has chosen them by calling them.

Rom 9: 14-16 What shall we say then? Is there unrighteousness with God? God forbid. For He saith to Moses, I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I will have compassion. So then, it is NOT of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that showeth mercy.
God is sovereign, all powerful, all knowing, just, and merciful. All creation is His and He can do whatever He wants with it. When living creatures ( animals, plants, fish, insects, etc.) were first created, they were created as adults with the ability to procreate like kind ( with the same characteristics as the parent). Living beings with a free will can either please God by obedience or displease Him by disobedience. Adam and Eve chose ( with the influence of the serpent) to disobey God and follow their own heart. It seems that since Adam and Eve were the ones that sinned, they only should be punished. Where there is no law there is no transgression. When Adam and Eve ate the fruit from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, they developed a conscience and were under the law of Consciencesness. That is why we are all born under the law and why the law is a curse because we are now responsible for all our thoughts and actions. The problem with mankind is puting self above all else. Self is his motivation for every thought and action. When a person recognizes that he is a sinner and is granted repentance by the Father, he turns to the Father for forgiveness who in turn provides the gospel for the forgiveness of sins through Jesus Christ through preaching. The person who trusts in Jesus has his sins washed away, but still has a sinful nature because his motivation is still self and the pleasures of the world and the flesh. That is where the Holy Spirit comes into action. The Holy Spirit of the Father and Son dwells in the person and the person becomes a new creature filled with divine love for God and man. With this new motivation of love for every thought and action, we are then obeying the Spirit of the Law and walking in the Spirit. Salvation is not just a mental thing, it is a state of being.

Romans 4: 15 "Because the law worketh wrath; for where no law is, there is no transgression.
What were the consequences of Adam and Eve eating the fruit of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil? God had warned them that if they did, they would surely die. This knowledge is our conscience and we are all born with it. This conscience that we are born with lets us know right from wrong and we are all under the law. The tendency of mankind is to put what benefits them first even at the expense of someone else, so we are all sinners ( even before the commandments given to Moses) and we all are condemned to death as soon as we are born. The choices for God are: 1. Let justice prevail and all humans go to hell, or 2. Save all humans, or 3. Save a few.
If God condemned all humans, He would not be merciful. If God saved all humans, there would be lawlessness on earth and in heaven. God's only choice to preserve His justice and His mercy is to save a few. The few are not chosen because of anything they do but because of God's will. God's plan for the chosen is to provide forgiveness of sins through belief in Jesus Christ and sanctification of the heart through His Holy Spirit.


Rom 9: 19-21 Thou wilt say then unto me, Why doth He yet find fault? For who hath resisted His will? Nay but, O man, who art thou that repliest against God? Shall the thing formed say to Him that formed it, Why hast thou made me thus? Hath not the potter power over the clay, of the same lump to make one vessel unto honor, and another unto dishonor?
The answer to the question is: Man was created with a free will and through Adam and Eve's sin, is born with the knowledge of good and evil and are therefore under law. Our actions are motivated by our hearts. It is our heart that is judged not our actions. 1 Cor 13: 1-13 explains that anything done without love in your heart is meaningless. Of course a perfect heart will produce good fruit. It is the Holy Spirit of God that perfects us by filling our hearts with agape love ( the same type of love shared by the Father and Son). When we are motivated by this love, we are obeying the Spirit of the Law and the fruit is: accomplishing the Father's will.

Rom 9: 22-24 What if God, willing to show His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much longsuffering the vessels of wrath fitted to destruction; And that He might make known the riches of His glory on the vessels of mercy, which He had before prepared unto glory. Even ( that is ) us , whom He hath called, not of the Jews only, but also of the Gentiles.
God puts up with mankind in order to display His justice on the vessels of wrath and His mercy on the vessels of mercy which He predestined.
God is not willing that any of these predestined vessels throughout human history perish so He is longsuffering.



Rom 11: 5-6 Even so, then, at this present time also, there is a remnant according to the election of grace. And if by grace, then is it no more of works; otherwise grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then is it no more grace;
In every generation God chooses whom to bestow His grace and use for His purpose. We cannot work to achieve this grace because grace is unmerited favor and if by works, then it would be merited. When you are baptized in the name of the Father, you are chosen to receive His grace. The Father chooses, the Son erases, and the Holy Spirit perfects.
You can't make statements like the one below.
Don't be swayed by the so-called Christians on this site.
Jesus said that you will know them (Christians) by the fruit they bear (Matthew 7:16).

Your saying that you will know them by the interpretation they apply to the scripture.

Your interpretation of Romans 9 is contrary to Paul's narration.

If you have not noticed yet, Romans 9, 10, 11, is explaining why Israel as a nation, failed to achieve election.

Paul is not discussing individual election in Romans 9.

Here is the summary of Romans 7,8,9,10,11.

Romans 11:17-23
But if some of the branches were broken off, and you, being a wild olive, were grafted in among them and became partaker with them of the rich root of the olive tree, do not be arrogant toward the branches; but if you are arrogant, remember that it is not you who supports the root, but the root supports you. You will say then, “Branches were broken off so that I might be grafted in.” Quite right, they were broken off for their unbelief, but you stand by your faith. Do not be conceited, but fear; for if God did not spare the natural branches, He will not spare you, either. See then the kindness and severity of God: to those who fell, severity, but to you, God’s kindness, if you continue in His kindness; for otherwise you too will be cut off. And they also, if they do not continue in their unbelief, will be grafted in; for God is able to graft them in again.

Read this sentence again and again.

"See then the kindness and severity of God: to those who fell, severity, but to you, God’s kindness, if you continue in His kindness; for otherwise you too will be cut off."

This statement by Paul is opposed to Calvinism.

Keep reading that paragraph over and over again, then you will understand what Romans is really about.
 

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They speak as though they chose God. Phrases like “that preacher won me to the Lord” It just doesn’t sit right with me. I think If we even begin to go down the road of learning Gods attributes, we should come away in complete awe of his sovereignty.
Amen. There are deep ditches on both sides of the road. God, in His sovereignty, has decided to make salvation freely available to whosoever will come to the fountain of His grace and receive.


Isaiah 55:1
“Ho, every one that thirsteth, come ye to the waters, and he that hath no money; come ye, buy, and eat; yea, come, buy wine and milk without money and without price.”
 

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What’s funny is the path God has taken me on to get here. I married the secretly Calvinist son of a freewill baptist preacher (we still attend the freewill church) and now that I am questioning, my husband has started leaning towards Arminianism 😂
Oh well.. we learn and study together. I normally go to him with all my questions but it’s nice to hear from others too
God bless you dear sister! Let us all come together into the center truth and throw off the yoke of anything that muddies the water and distracts from the simple Gospel.

John 3:16
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”
 
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Amen to that, sis... perhaps you should re-think the whole "am I Calvinist or Arminian" question.

NEITHER of those terms are in scripture.. We were not called to follow Calvin, or any other.... .
I agree. I have not even read John Calvin’s institutes or anything like that… just interested in understanding what I am reading more clearly. I use Calvinism loosely as I have heard more of the gist of it than actually studying it. I do listen to a few preachers that may identify themselves that way (John MacArthur, Paul washer) but again it’s not about identifying with a certain denomination or in a certain category- just seeking understanding.
His ways and thoughts are higher than ours. I just want to know as much as my mind can conceive of Him.
 

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It is not complicated at all. It is a fact that the group of believers (called the Church) is elect and predestined for Heaven. Nothing can snatch her out of God's hand. Jesus calls all to open the door and come in and be a part of this group. There is nothing complicated about the Gospel. Calvinism is a false Gospel.
What’s the difference between calvinism and what you wrote?
 

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It REALLY surprises me that no one has answered you yet! I'm not the typical "Christian" because I don't call someone a Christian until they have received the Holy Ghost with the evidence of speaking in tongues...and I believe that baptism is "for the remission of sins" as was started at God's sending by John the baptist (Mark 1:4 & Luke 3:3) and was continued in the new covenant with the addition of the name of Jesus per Luke 24:47 by Peter, etc in Acts 2:38. However, I will answer honestly and openly. I just wanted to get that said up front. :)

Calvanism is much discussed and in Reading certain scriptures it REALLY seems plausible. But if the believers also have no choice in the "loving" God, the idea of being forced to believe really starts to unravel. Forced love is not love.

Personally I don't know why people act as if works are bad. Perhaps works of the LAW don't produce life. But faith brings a new set of works with it. Works of FAITH...and faith is dead without them per James (and others).

Reply as you wish. You seem honest and genuine... and I hope to reply in kind.

Love in Jesus,
Kelby
Speaking in tongues is one of many gifts, not all people get all gifts, as a preacher of 37 years believe me, this is nonsensical doctrine from long ago, that is just false. Col. 12 tells us some gets the gift of prophecy, some speak in tongues etc. etc. The tongues are not even that needed by God anymore because they can't prove a person is under the direction of the holy spirit, I could learn Spanish online, but God wanted to spread the Gospel to the Gentiles, so via unlearned Jewish men, who spoke in these various languages, that in and of itself was a testimony unto Gentiles that this was of God, Peter preaching in different languages then was proof this Gospel was of God. With the modern day computer, anyone can learn any language in weeks if they want to.
 

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What’s funny is the path God has taken me on to get here. ...
Welcome.

There are many denominations and sects born out of hyper-focusing on archaic words, stripping them from their plain meaning and transforming them into doctrines that cause later readers to stumble. I'd like to share a bit of context and then (hopefully) allow the scriptures to reveal what they're saying on their own. Of course, always pray before studying asking the Almighty to reveal His plain meaning to you.

Paul's target audience

Rom 1:7
To all
that be in Rome, beloved of God, called to be saints: Grace to you and peace from God our Father, and the Lord Jesus Christ.


Who's in Rome?

Jews who believe & Gentile converts who believe (Acts 2:10, 18:2)


The core passage in question

Rom 8:29
For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.


Who did Almighty foreknow?

Rom 11:1-2
I ask then, did God reject His people? Certainly not! I am an Israelite myself, a descendant of Abraham, from the tribe of Benjamin. 2 God did not reject His people, whom He foreknew. Do you not know what the Scripture says about Elijah, how he appealed to God against Israel:


Is this confirmed elsewhere?

Amos 3:1-2
Hear this word that the Lord hath spoken against you, O children of Israel, against the whole family which I brought up from the land of Egypt, saying, You only have I known of all the families of the earth: therefore I will punish you for all your iniquities.

Deut 32:8-9
When the most High divided to the nations their inheritance, when he separated the sons of Adam, he set the bounds of the people according to the number of the children of Israel. For the LORD'S portion is his people; Jacob is the lot of his inheritance.



Back to the core passage in question [w/brackets inserting scripture]

Rom 8:29
For [the children of Israel], he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.


When did Almighty predestinate Israel to conform to the image of His Son?

Hosea 1:10-11
10 Yet the number of the children of Israel shall be as the sand of the sea, which cannot be measured nor numbered; and it shall come to pass, that in the place where it was said unto them, Ye are not my people, there it shall be said unto them, Ye are the sons of the living God.

11 Then shall the children of Judah and the children of Israel be gathered together, and appoint themselves one head, and they shall come up out of the land: for great shall be the day of Jezreel.


Romans' context confirmed

Rom 8:19, 23 [brackets mine]
For the earnest expectation of the creature waiteth for the manifestation of the sons of God.

23 And not only [Israel], but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.


Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.


Back to the core passage in question [w/brackets inserting scripture]

Rom 8:29
For [the children of Israel], he also did [Preplan] to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.


Romans continues

Rom 8:30-33
30 Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.

31 What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?

32 He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?

33 Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect? It is God that justifieth.


- (OF) Whom He preplanned = The Children of Israel
- THEM (==>) He called = Specific people of Israel

- (OF) Whom He called = Specific people of Israel
- THEM (==>) He Justified = Those who answer the call

- (OF) Whom He Justified = Those who answered the call
- THEM (==>) He glorified = Those specific people of the children of Israel who answer the call will transform


God's Elect. The remnant of the children of Israel.

Romans 11:1-2, 5-7, 28 [brackets mine]
I say then, Hath God cast away his people? God forbid. For I also am an Israelite, of the seed of Abraham, of the tribe of Benjamin. God hath not cast away his people which he foreknew...

5 Even so then at this present time also there is a remnant according to the election of grace. And if by grace, then is it no more of works: otherwise grace is no more grace. But if it be of works, then is it no more grace: otherwise work is no more work.

7 What then? Israel hath not obtained that which he seeketh for; but the election hath obtained it, and the rest were blinded

28 As concerning the gospel, [Remnant of Israel] are enemies for your sakes: but as touching the election, [Remnant of Israel] are beloved for the fathers' sakes.

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Summary Conclusion:

1) Only Israel was foreknown by God; known before all other nations. Known intimately; covenant.

2) Only Israel is preplanned to confirm into the likeness of His Son.

3) Only the remnant of Israel is the Elect of God. Those who hear the call.

4) Israel was scattered/cast to the winds so that Gentiles have an opportunity for Salvation.
- The kingdom of heaven is like a net (Matthew 13:47)

5) Gentile believers are grafted (like wild branches) into the root of Israel (on the condition they continue in Him)

6) When the full measure of Gentiles comes into Israel (i.e. He knows them too), The Remnant will be regathered.
- The kingdom of heaven is like a net (Matthew 13:47)
- Men will take hold of a Jew and say "we will go with you for God is with you". (Zechariah 8:23)

7) Thus All Israel (Remnant & wild branches) is saved. The Resurrection. The Transformation. The Glory.
 

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Arminians are 100 times worse .

They THROW OUT Predestination and Election. WHY? because they also think it means God predestined men unto damnation. They jump to the very same conclusion. So they not only throw out Calvin they also throw out the bible. And they create a new horror doctrine of their own, the doctrine of Human freewill.

Human Freewill insists that in order to be saved a person must hear the gospel, must believe the gospel and must DECIDE ... CHOOSE. else they are damned.

They therefore consign BILLIONS of human souls to hell because we never reached them with the gospel. That's worse than Calvin.

Come the bible way. BELIEVE God foreknew YOU and predestined you and chose you to be like Jesus and to be His witness in the world.

Leave all else to God's immeasurable mercy and grace.
this is the biggest problem I have with most Christians. They speak as though they chose God. Phrases like “that preacher won me to the Lord” It just doesn’t sit right with me. I think If we even begin to go down the road of learning Gods attributes, we should come away in complete awe of his sovereignty.[/QUOTE]
Ok...

Here's the rub.

Can you drink water that has cyanide in it? Drink around the cyanide?

Of course not.

So stop trying.

Where Calvinists do God's Sovereignty some justice they negate the power of the Gospel by saying that God wants robots and only those He forced to say "I love you " to God....heck I can make my cell phone do that and I don't care about my cell phone enough to have eternal loyalty to it.
And Calvinists tend to license their pride and other sins by saying "God chose me" instead of continually working out their salvation with fear and trembling.

Armenians destroy God's powerful grace and make it less than what it is....much less. Peter is a prime example of living Contrary to the Armenian Doctrine.
A person can indeed lose their salvation but identity changes are not quick or easily navigated.

So if both contain poison...then there must be a truth that neither Theological system recognizes...

And that one theology must be right....but where would we find this story in scripture?
The story of the Man Born Blind in John's Gospel. The "religious leaders" were so caught up in their arguments that they couldn't recognize the miracle literally standing there. Peter asked a unique question " who sinned?"
Why does God curse some people and yet bless others?

But more importantly...Why Me ?
Why do I have access to God and his Grace and others, who would be much better choices, got overlooked. What sets me apart.

And if you got an answer...I'm all ears.
 
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I agree. I have not even read John Calvin’s institutes or anything like that… just interested in understanding what I am reading more clearly. I use Calvinism loosely as I have heard more of the gist of it than actually studying it. I do listen to a few preachers that may identify themselves that way (John MacArthur, Paul washer) but again it’s not about identifying with a certain denomination or in a certain category- just seeking understanding.
His ways and thoughts are higher than ours. I just want to know as much as my mind can conceive of Him.
I, myself, do not follow any man or any man's teachings. I also have never read anything that Calvin wrote or any commentary by his followers. The bible scriptures is all I go by. You should do the same. Many of these posts are just a simple case of the blind trying to lead the blind. I leave you with one last comment and pearl of wisdom: Salvation is a state of being and not just a state of mind. You are in a new state of being when you are born again. I pray that God will bless you and all the other posters on this site with health and understanding.