I have a addiction to porn that is consuming my life and marriage. It started recently when I had some time off work and started searching around the internet, next thing you know I am on porn sites getting addicted! Well it has been 3 weeks since that day and its getting worse! Its getting to the point where it is affecting my relationship with my wife sexualy and moraly. Plesea give me some advice to this problem?
you should have watched a cooking show
there really was no 'next thing you know'
you purposely and with intent went looking and found what you were looking for
how about God? is it affecting your relationship with God? you state you are a Christian, but most of us know that does not secure a sinless life. now that you are bothered by something that has the goods on you, you want to get rid of it
no use saying repent as someone already said...what does that even mean in light of knowing you already have formed this very addictive and habitual sin?
some good advice: are you hiding this from your wife?
do you sit in church on Sunday and find your mind drifting (ahem) 'elsewhere'?
is your Pastor or elder available for counsel? (Pastors do not always make the best counsellor, but too many churches do not have an actual counselor available and cannot suggest one)
well you will have to be proactive about this...just like you went surfing for sex, you will now have to make an effort to undo the harm you have done both to yourself and your wife. sadly, porn participation is not unique or new and even sadder, not for those professing Christianity either
you need help and you need accountability. you are being unfaithful to your wife, which you may or may not know but you are also creating deep grooves in your mind....creating an extremely addictive and destructive habit...and you should pray about being open about it if you really do mean to break out of this prison you have created for yourself
some folks are addicted to food, drink, gambling...whatever. treat this like an addiction and actively seek help
there is no kill switch or magic marker going to erase this stuff from your mind but you can with honesty and diligence and above all, the help God offers, put it behind you.
honesty...not hidden sin. I pray God enables you to reach out and give you the strength to overcome
I expect someone might come along and post some links that might help you.