There is a lot in there, so I will address only a few points. What made one an Apostle? They where all ordained by Jesus Himself. The original 11 by the incarnate Christ, Mathias by by lot, and Paul by Christ in His glory. To claim others as Apostles is not biblically sound nor are they ever mentioned as Apostles
God is not limited to anything. There are certain dispensation periods in which God preformed preternatural events. These were not and have not been common throughout annals of history. The closing of canonical scripture does not indicted a limiting or ceasing of Gods power. I don’t think anyone disagrees on that.
Proof-texting seems to have become the norm for many believes and non-believes alike. When disputes arises, many are quick to throw out a couple of verses to validate their positions. This a big error. Proper hermanuics are needed; such as who the author is writing to, what is the central theme of the passages, if it’s theological, poetic, wisdom, historical, prothetic, etc. I have done this many times myself.
The OP is really not about speaking in tongues per say. It’s more about how the Apostolic age ended in the first century. That was a very critical time for the church and such things were needed. Of course they will come about again when when the great tribulation occurs, but I see this as being hijacked and many being led astray with false doctrines and pseudo teachings.