What are you talking about? Where is this hatred coming from? I've actually never been in a church where this was preached at all. And btw, in my class, I teach the whole counsel of God. Please lay off the accusations. Thank you.
So, you have never been in a Church where they preach/teach that women can not have authority over men? Seriously? Now, if you have, then you have been in a Church where the writings of the Apostle concerning women are taught. You can not cherry pick which of hs writings you want to believe/enforce and ignore the others. If one of them is a Commandment from God, then all of them are.
Hatred has nothing to do with it. Sorrow is more accurate. The sorrow I feel for what you and Church Leaders who believe as you are doing to the women in your Congregations. Even worse, you allow young girls to attend Sunday School Classes, which is against one of the Apostles teachings. The young girls are to learn from their mothers at home, not in the Church.
You guys do not have a clue of what you are doing. Or, you do not care about what you are doing, as long as you can keep women in their place.
Accusations? I accuse you of nothing more than speaking the truth of what Church Leaders like you and those who believe as you are doing. If it is truth, it isn't accusation.
Address the questions in the OP. WHY do you not teach/enforce ALL of what the Apostle wrote concerning women? WHY only the "authority over" part?
Do you understand that you are placing women in your Congregation (according to your teachings/beliefs) in a position of disobedience to God? Do you care?