Are there single Christian girls in Finland ?

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Kauko

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Anyway, I have been today in shop and found two college age girls. Though I have talked with none of them. The girls looked both superficial. Both had multiple piercings in the ear and one had dyed hair. So I felt disgusted and avoided them.
 

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But how do I start ? Why would I approach a random girl I see in shop and talk with her for no reason ? She could see me as some kind of stalker...
How do you start would depend on the situation. If you bumped into a girl in a grocery store perusing the produce you could ask how do you know when a honey dew melon is ripe. Rather than a stalker she may perceive you to be a rather helpless bachelor in need of a woman's touch.
 

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How do you start would depend on the situation. If you bumped into a girl in a grocery store perusing the produce you could ask how do you know when a honey dew melon is ripe.
And what if I dont find an appropriate situation ?
Rather than a stalker she may perceive you to be a rather helpless bachelor in need of a woman's touch.
Worse even, she could take advantage of my situation and deceive me ruining completely my life. Bad girls are expert actresses. Remember the example of my uncle who believed her wife was a good virtuous woman until he found out the dark reality of her more than 20 years after their wedding. Maybe I will need to retract. Its a danger.
 

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The wheel keeps on turning
And turning and turning and
Nothing's disturbing
The way it goes around
The wheel keeps on turning
And turning and turning and
Nothing's disturbing
The way it goes around
 

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Ignore the user above. He will not stop until you stop giving him likes and replies.
 

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And what if I dont find an appropriate situation ?

Worse even, she could take advantage of my situation and deceive me ruining completely my life. Bad girls are expert actresses. Remember the example of my uncle who believed her wife was a good virtuous woman until he found out the dark reality of her more than 20 years after their wedding. Maybe I will need to retract. Its a danger.
With your fears and anxieties perhaps it is best to remain single.
 

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Ignore the user above. He will not stop until you stop giving him likes and replies.
The uses above @Lynx has been a member for years and is one of the more well-balance members, interesting, and at times amusing. He offers wise counsel too.
 

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The wheel keeps on turning
And turning and turning and
Nothing's disturbing
The way it goes around
The wheel keeps on turning
And turning and turning and
Nothing's disturbing
The way it goes around
"We didn't start the fire.
It's been burning since the
World's been turning..."
 

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But I cant be single for the rest of my life. Im uncapable.
You have to understand that it is always a risk to enter into a relationship, especially one that may lead to marriage. If you wait until everything is perfectly aligned, all the T's and I's crossed and all the lights are green, you will remain alone for many years to come. Entering a relationship is not a passive activity, it involves risks and work.
 

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Ignore the user above. He will not stop until you stop giving him likes and replies.
Nah, that won't stop me. I don't make comments for likes and replies. I do it for squirts and giggles. :ROFL:
 

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You have to understand that it is always a risk to enter into a relationship, especially one that may lead to marriage. If you wait until everything is perfectly aligned, all the T's and I's crossed and all the lights are green, you will remain alone for many years to come. Entering a relationship is not a passive activity, it involves risks and work.
The problem is that I cant find a marriage material girl. I only find superficial and unworthy girls.

In fact, I have been today in shop and found two college age girls. Though I have talked with none of them. The girls looked both very superficial. Both had multiple piercings in the ear and one had dyed hair. So I felt disgusted and avoided them. This is the only kind of girls I have found through my life. My question is, How can I find a more righteous girl ?
 

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Nah, that won't stop me. I don't make comments for likes and replies. I do it for squirts and giggles. :ROFL:
I'm afraid that's the reward he has chosen to give you for expressing your comments on his post to try and be supportive..🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
God for you matiee..👍🏻😊😊...plenty more squirts and giggles to come..🤣🤣
 

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The problem is that I cant find a marriage material girl. I only find superficial and unworthy girls.

In fact, I have been today in shop and found two college age girls. Though I have talked with none of them. The girls looked both very superficial. Both had multiple piercings in the ear and one had dyed hair. So I felt disgusted and avoided them. This is the only kind of girls I have found through my life. My question is, How can I find a more righteous girl ?
Who are you to judge them as being superficial?You know nothing really deep about them?
They are human beings for goodness sake..made in the image of God...You know nothing about their lifes traumas...their fears..their lifes struggles ect..just because they are not Christian doesn't in ANYWAY devalue them ok.You know NOTHING really deep about them...have had NO really in depth interaction with them...nothing at all..🤷‍♀️
Ok so they had multiple ear piercings and the other had dyed hair...so what??That doesn't give you the right to see them in such low regard to the point where you felt disgusted by them and ended up avoiding them..They are somebodies sister,child ect..
For someone who has zero experience of the opposite sex ..you are the one is this instance who is the superficial one.

'Remember that a righteous female is a saved sinner'
 

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Who are you to judge them as being superficial?You know nothing really deep about them?
They are human beings for goodness sake..made in the image of God...You know nothing about their lifes traumas...their fears..their lifes struggles ect..just because they are not Christian doesn't in ANYWAY devalue them ok.You know NOTHING really deep about them...have had NO really in depth interaction with them...nothing at all..🤷‍♀️
Ok so one had multiple ear piercings and the other had dyed hair...so what??That doesn't give you the right to see them in such low regard to the point where you felt disgusted by them and ended up avoiding them..They are somebodies sister,child ect..
For someone who has zero experience of the opposite sex ..you are the one is this instance who is the superficial one.

'Remember that a righteous female is a saved sinner'
Piercings and dyed hairs are detectors of superficial and debaucherous hookup girls who are not marriage material. Just like tattoos heavy makeup and social media profiles.

If I go with any of them theres a 100 percent chance I will end up cheated on several times and left on wilderness with all of my life stolen dying of chronic alcoholism. So they will have zero chance with me.
 

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I think there's really only one solution to your problem:

Invent a time machine and travel back in time roughly 500 years. Then the whole nation will be Christian (for a given value of Christian) and all the women will be marriage minded. That is it's a good plan as long as with your 21st century knowledge and protestant faith you can escape being pursued and executed as either a warlock or heretic (or both).

Better get started on that time machine and be careful not to step on any butterflies or accidentally kill any ancestors.
 

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Piercings and dyed hairs are detectors of superficial and debaucherous hookup girls who are not marriage material. Just like tattoos heavy makeup and social media profiles.

If I go with any of them theres a 100 percent chance I will end up cheated on several times and left on wilderness with all of my life stolen dying of chronic alcoholism. So they will have zero chance with me.
The points you mentioned are irrelevant..they are not Christian young women so the spectrum of their moral compass will be completely different...
 

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The points you mentioned are irrelevant..they are not Christian young women so the spectrum of their moral compass will be completely different...
Having sex with 5 different men every week is their idea of morality.

And remember that if they are not Christian, they are against Christ and therefore against me.
 

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Having sex with 5 different men every week is their idea of morality.

And remember that if they are not Christian, they are against Christ and therefore against me.
I am not talking about their suitability...nor am I talking about the things that they get up to...they are not Christian to whatever they get up do stems from the sinful nature that they are enslaved by..so it's pretty pointless banging in about them in that sense.
You know exactly what I was referring too...the fact that they were so repulsive to you and they haven't even done anything to you personally is what bothered me.Just because they are not suitable for you doesn't give you a sense of entitlement to hold them in such low regard..
Remember the account of the woman they were gonna stone because they caught her in the act of sexual sin and yes they were right in terms of acknowledging the wrongness of her actions yet at the same time so very wrong in their attitude towards this women...I am sue you know what jesus did in that situation.
What would you do if they said they recently accepted jesus christ as their lord and saviour...yet stil had multiple ear piercings in and one still had dye hair..?
I am not saying that they would or wouldn't be suitable to date you ect..I am just making a point about their worth as people.
 

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Having sex with 5 different men every week is their idea of morality.

And remember that if they are not Christian, they are against Christ and therefore against me.
Wow. You sure do make a lot of assumptions based on how somebody looks.

Good thing you can't see my picture. Who knows what you might assume about me.