Why Does Society Seem to Think That Cougars... Should Be Shot? (Older Woman and Younger Men.)

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wisebeardman

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EnglishChick said:
I think people should date whom they eant, marry whom they want. As long as not underage
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I think you miss my point, as a guy with no kids, only point to even bother with any of that is to produce kids. which has better odds to produce kids 38 or 20?
 
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wisebeardman said:
I think you miss my point, as a guy with no kids, only point to even bother with any of that is to produce kids. which has better odds to produce kids 38 or 20?
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some don't want kids though. So I can see why those who don't want kids may go for a 40 plus woman.

To each their own.

I don't want either.
 
wisebeardman

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Maybe some people want companionship? I don't know. I have known people in their 60s marry for love and companionship. If you love someone you love someone
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idk, if i wanted pretty much just a friend to hang with id just go to a pub.
 
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wisebeardman said:
I think you miss my point, as a guy with no kids, only point to even bother with any of that is to produce kids. which has better odds to produce kids 38 or 20?
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Oyster tinks mawiage be about wuv.:love:(y)
 
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then what is the point, the entire point of male and female is to produce small humans.
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??????? really ?????? You ACTUALLY feel this way, or is this just a sad attempt at humor?
 
wisebeardman

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oyster67 said:
We shall let Abraham and Sarah field that question.
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and that is just a strawman, as you don't actually answer the question as I have placed it. which has better odds to produce offspring a 38 year old female or a 20 year old female?
 
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Oyster tinks mawiage be about wuv.:love:(y)
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Fantasy is nice, until the rocky roads come. I do believe this makes me cynical.

I hope you find what you are looking for oyster, there are plenty of oysters in the sea, or something like that.
 
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child free by choice is not following the "be fruitful and multiply"
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Someday you will stand before Jesus. Maybe then you can bump Him over the head with that club. God does not give all married people children, for that matter. Not even to some of the ones that try very hard.

Marriage is most valuable and precious as a picture of the love relationship God desires to have with every man, woman, and child ever created. The Church is called Christ's Bride. Human love and marriage is a far higher thing than a dog and cat-like reproduction treadmill.
 
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oyster67 said:
Someday you will stand before Jesus. Maybe then you can bump Him over the head with that club. God does not give all married people children, for that matter. Not even to some of the ones that try very hard.

Marriage is most valuable and precious as a picture of the love relationship God desires to have with every man, woman, and child ever created. The Church is called Christ's Bride. Human love and marriage is a far higher thing than a dog and cat-like reproduction treadmill.
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again you are straw-manning. if you ain't going to produce kids, then you have no need for sex thus no need to be married. you can just go be pub mates.
 
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wisebeardman said:
which has better odds to produce offspring a 38 year old female or a 20 year old female?
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The 38 year old female has a 100% chance if it is God's will. The 20 year old has a zero% chance if it is not in His will. Your logistics and statistics go out the window once we step into the Kingdom and start living by faith.
 
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wisebeardman said:
again you are straw-manning. if you ain't going to produce kids, then you have no need for sex thus no need to be married. you can just go be pub mates.
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I love you, brother, but not everyone thinks or believes the same way you do concerning these things.
 
wisebeardman

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oyster67 said:
I love you, brother, but not everyone thinks or believes the same way you do concerning these things.
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And there are people who believe 10,000 genders exist and a boy can become a girl.

plain and simple, if you ain't going to produce kids in a marriage then what is the point of the marriage? you can do everything else as just a friend so marriage isn't needed.
 
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kinda said:
Fantasy is nice, until the rocky roads come. I do believe this makes me cynical.

I hope you find what you are looking for oyster, there are plenty of oysters in the sea, or something like that.
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No institution or relationship on this old Earth stands a chance if God is not in it. On this I'm sure we agree. I, even as old as I am, have very weak faith. Oh, that mine might attain the level of Father Abraham. Glorious day that would be.
 
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