" Maybe its real and im just not Chosen "

So either you aren't real
Or I am just not chosen
Maybe I'll never know
Either way my heart is broken
This is the lyrics from a well known, former professing Calvinist , singer song writer Derick Webb . Now self proclaimed 'reformed atheist ' .
i think this video explains some of the issues with Calvinism / Lordship salvation. This is an interview with Derick Webb ,who is now an atheist/ agnostic but formerly a famous singer song writer, professing Calvinist. I think what he says exposes some of the logical consequences of Calvinism and Lordship salvation .
Starting about the 50 min mark onwards are the key parts . till about 102 min mark .

I have to take Derick at his word as a now professing Atheist . My point is He was a former professing Calvinist .

A professed Calvinist? I don’t even know any of those who describe their doctrinal beliefs as “professed Calvinism “

They profess to be Christians. Believers in Jesus Christ.

Quite frankly, this is stupid.
If this guy professed to be a follower of Calvin, rather than Christ, then guess what? He was never a Christian and his word is less than worthless!

And given the opportunity what would you tell him? Seems he debates people like you often and by what I've seen you post here, he's definitely more knowledgable than you.

ok this sounds like pistols at dawn you rotter . lol I would tell him the same thing I would anyone coming from a Catholic / Jehovah witness / Mormon/ SDA/ background and point them towards the Jesus who actually died for everyone's sins and can actually believe the Gospel and recieve Jesus . The same message most Calvinists heard before they were taken captive by a false message/ theological worldview.

I am not a Calvinist, and yet before I believed, I had a lot of doubts and was wondering if I was chosen too. I had not even read the whole Bible back then, I just owned a mini book, the Gospel of Matthew. I wondered if I was a goat or a sheep - "who am I"?
I don't know how do you plan on circumventing the concept of election and decisions ultimately stemming from one's identity, because this view is baked into the Bible.

See straight away ,no one is a sheep or a goat in that reference . Its the ' nations ' not individuals . This is the problem with Calvinism. And Elected for what ? Election is to service, calling and purpose, not to salvation. (Isa. 42:1; Acts 9:15; Rom. 11:28)

Ok he'd definitely shred you

I don't agree. "Many are called but few are chosen". Now you equate "the called" with "the elect". Our Father wants everyone to work in His vineyard. You're doing no better here than the Calvinists when they equate "the world" with "the elect" (for God so loved the world = the elect).

Ok he'd definitely shred you

And Elected for what ? Election is to service, calling and purpose, not to salvation. (Isa. 42:1; Acts 9:15; Rom. 11:28)

Not sure what you mean ?

Maybe . look at Matt slick . I think if He suddenly became an Atheist lots of Arminians would be in danger .

You admit the possibility of Derek Webb, an unbeliever who was raised calvinist, would shred you in a debate, yet you post thread after thread claiming the doctrine of grace to be false. Hmmm 🤔 may be time to reevaluate your presence here on CC.

Gotta keep in mind the scripture:
Matthew 22:14 “For many are called, but few are chosen.”

You admit the possibility of Derek Webb, an unbeliever who was raised calvinist, would shred you in a debate, yet you post thread after thread claiming the doctrine of grace to be false. Hmmm 🤔 may be time to reevaluate your presence here on CC.

The disciples maybe and one of them a devil .?

I don't agree. "Many are called but few are chosen". Now you equate "the called" with "the elect". Our Father wants everyone to work in His vineyard. You're doing no better here than the Calvinists when they equate "the world" with "the elect" (for God so loved the world = the elect).

I can't understand your posts sometimes. Sorry.