If the Church Won't, the Government Will

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So you are here to speak to a Christian Socialist Communist model then
No, I am diametrically opposed to the idea of Christian communism, which eventually sets a mandate for wealth redistribution. In order to achieve the communal oneness the early church experienced, benevolence has to be from the heart of Christ who lives inside each one of us. It cannot be mandated by either the government or the church hierarchy. That has been my point all along.

As far as your book recommendation, it looks like a really good read. I will have to check it out. Thank you.
 
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Take the money you usually tithe to the church and give it to someone who actually needs it
Which means that your pastor(s) will have no income, and your missionaries will nave no support.
I would argue that if we didn't have huge buildings with likewise huge mortgages, and paid staff, we could give a lot more to missionaries that are doing work for the needy right here in our country. We may even have enough left over to help that single mom sitting in the front pew listening to the pastor berate her week in and week out for not giving out of her poverty.
 
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Mr. DesertWanderer, I don't know what has caused you to dig your heels in and be so opposed to pastors and the modern church, but it is Very disturbing to me. I do not say this to fight with you. I just wonder what in your life has transpired to cause you to be this dead set against the church in America. God IS using pastors, deacons, church members, church buildings, church tithes/offerings, and church ministries for His glory. I know that there are some pastors, etc who are out of line. But I believe that making sweeping generalities and condemning the whole lot is wrong and I can't help but think that God is grieved. I pray for you, Sir. 😞
 
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I don't know what has caused you to dig your heels in and be so opposed to pastors and the modern church, but it is Very disturbing to me.
I am assuming you have read a few of my posts. I try and give an explanation for each position I take. It is not purely emotional. However, my passion for each subject probably screams out at times. My main position concerning the modern church and its leadership is that it has failed, and it is time for a change. If that is disturbing to you, I am sorry.

I do not say this to fight with you.
I think having a healthy debate is in order. I don't believe we should be following the church leadership blindly just because they see themselves as being spiritually superior to everyone else. Elitism is rampant, from the Vatican all the way down to the country church that serves only 30 people. The disciples of Christ need to take their churches back. I am prayerful we will one day accomplish that.

I just wonder what in your life has transpired to cause you to be this dead set against the church in America.
I am not the only one. There are many people in the U.S. that are no longer willing to "play church" anymore. And it's not because we are all"lost." It's because we want the same thing Jesus does: He wants his church back.

God IS using pastors, deacons, church members, church buildings, church tithes/offerings, and church ministries for His glory.
I agree 100%, and I would never ask anyone to stop gathering together. All I want my fellow believers to do is take responsibility and think for themselves. For example, what's better, having 95% of your tithe go to buildings and staff salaries, or to a single mom who decided to keep her baby instead of aborting it? We as Christians stand up and shake our firsts at those who abort their babies, yet how many churches do you know open their doors to these single moms? The answer is none because the pastor is too worried that the kid is going to spit-up on his new carpet.

I know that there are some pastors, etc who are out of line.
No, It is the whole system of "church" in the western world that is out of line. It has been that way for 1700 years. It's time to go back to what Jesus envisioned, without all the buildings, Ph.D.'s, expensive programs and hierarchy.

But I believe that making sweeping generalities and condemning the whole lot is wrong and I can't help but think that God is grieved. I pray for you, Sir.
It is time to make sweeping generalities. The numbers leaving the church as we know it is alarming, and it is not for the reasons that most pastors give. We are not all "derelicts." Societies all over the world are moving away from institutionalism. And that is a very good thing when it comes to the Church our Lord envisioned. God bless you, and I will pray for you also. :)
 
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I am assuming you have read a few of my posts. I try and give an explanation for each position I take. It is not purely emotional. However, my passion for each subject probably screams out at times. My main position concerning the modern church and its leadership is that it has failed, and it is time for a change. If that is disturbing to you, I am sorry.



I think having a healthy debate is in order. I don't believe we should be following the church leadership blindly just because they see themselves as being spiritually superior to everyone else. Elitism is rampant, from the Vatican all the way down to the country church that serves only 30 people. The disciples of Christ need to take their churches back. I am prayerful we will one day accomplish that.



I am not the only one. There are many people in the U.S. that are no longer willing to "play church" anymore. And it's not because we are all"lost." It's because we want the same thing Jesus does: He wants his church back.



I agree 100%, and I would never ask anyone to stop gathering together. All I want my fellow believers to do is take responsibility and think for themselves. For example, what's better, having 95% of your tithe go to buildings and staff salaries, or to a single mom who decided to keep her baby instead of aborting it? We as Christians stand up and shake our firsts at those who abort their babies, yet how many churches do you know open their doors to these single moms? The answer is none because the pastor is too worried that the kid is going to spit-up on his new carpet.



No, It is the whole system of "church" in the western world that is out of line. It has been that way for 1700 years. It's time to go back to what Jesus envisioned, without all the buildings, Ph.D.'s, expensive programs and hierarchy.



It is time to make sweeping generalities. The numbers leaving the church as we know it is alarming, and it is not for the reasons that most pastors give. We are not all "derelicts." Societies all over the world are moving away from institutionalism. And that is a very good thing when it comes to the Church our Lord envisioned. God bless you, and I will pray for you also. :)
Humbly and genuinely:

Big brother, do you mind if I ask what in your life has happened to cause you to come to this conclusion concerning pastors and the church? Have you personally had a disappointing, hurtful, or offensive experience with a pastor or church- or maybe more than one? In my mind, it is one thing to call for change, but it is another matter to angrily scorn that which involves (some of) God's beloved.

Thank you for the prayers! 🙂
 

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Most of the unchurched’s departure was not influenced by negative events or hurts they’ve experienced through others. Or an erosion of faith. They simply view the system as it stands as incompatible with their faith and principles. Some are opting for house churches or informal gatherings in their place. Others are secular or prefer spirituality over religion.

Barna produced an insightful article addressing the issue.

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It happens every third Sunday. Most pastors in the U.S. will get behind the podium, shaking their fists, railing against the forces behind socialism in America. They lament about the demise of our society and how the Democrats are ruining the American way of life. The candidates for president are all socialists, and socialism, they say, leads to communism, and communism will destroy our country!

Communism defined

Communism: (from Latin communis, "common, universal") is a philosophical, social, political and economic ideology and movement whose ultimate goal is the establishment of a communist society, namely a socioeconomic order structured upon the ideas of common ownership of the means of production and the absence of social classes, money and the state. -- Wikipedia

Was the early church made up of communists?

The early church can be thought of as communistic in its purest form:

And they devoted themselves to the apostles' teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved. Acts 2: 42-47

Much different than Marxism

The manner in which these early Christians lived was far removed from Marxist ideology. However, the basic tenants of communism are the same:
  • They lived in close proximity to one another.
  • They gave freely of their time and possessions so that no one would go without the basic necessities of life.
  • They ate together, prayed together, and there was a real sense of community.

The difference between this and the Marxist ideal is that there was no government mandate. These early believers gave of themselves, without the need for bureaucratic coercion. They were a benevolent society, much like the churches in America used to be; the churches that have recently succumbed to corporate capitalism.


Is capitalism evil?

A capitalist system has proven very useful to the growth and overall well-being of any country that adopts it. It has proven far superior to any socialist/ communist scheme that has ever been tried in the past. A free-market economy will always work better. However, capitalism should never be part of the underlying structure of any church organization. It should remain a tight-knit, benevolent society of believers who share each other's burdens.

Why are churches in the U.S. no longer benevolent?

There are two parts to most church budgets: the mortgage payment and staff compensation ( salaries, housing allowance, and health care benefits). These two major items usually consume at least 85% of what the church brings in through tithes and offerings. 5% goes to maintain the building. Another 5% goes to marketing (most churches don't like to call it that, but in reality, that is what it is). The amount remaining, about 5%, is usually divided between mission work and a paultry "benevolent fund."

With churches in the U.S. so strapped for cash, it is no wonder they have trouble serving their communities. There is not much room in the budget to open a food pantry. Single parents now look to the government for help in raising their children instead of their churches. Alcoholics and drug addicts find support through city and county programs. These struggling victims of Satan's attacks know better than to ask a pastor at a local church. They have experienced a cold shoulder one-too-many times!

What is the solution?

Here are a few suggestions for the followers of Christ to serve their communities rather than rely solely on the government:

  1. Sell your church building and give the money to the poor
  2. Take the money you usually tithe to the church and give it to someone who actually needs it
  3. There are 168 hours in a week. Most churches utilize their building for only a few hours a week. Make it a goal to open it to the public at least three times what you do now.
  4. Rent the church building out to other organizations during the week. Use the proceeds to pay down the mortgage in half the time.
  5. Turn your church building into a homeless shelter.
  6. Go back to having fund-raisers instead of asking each member of the church to put the financial well being of their families at risk.

By merely suggesting these solutions to the church hierarchy, a lowly parishioner may be chastised. However, it is essential to remember that if the church does not get involved with the local community, the government is all-too-willing, at great cost to the American taxpayer!
americans just dont operate by communism or socialism they find it really hard to conceive of it,

The culture is 'me first.' or look out for number one. It seems ingrained.

Many churches arem actually community churches thats how many are run in nz. The congregationalists were a denom that everything was run by everybody there wasnt just one person doing everything like a pyramid scheme like you have in other churches that are run as corporations with just a couple of people at the 'top'

Community is where people want to belong, we have communion which is the Lord supper, shared. You dont pay to have it. You share in partaking and have things in common. thats how communism a tually works. if you dont have things in common, you do not actually have a real community.
 
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Most of the unchurched’s departure was not influenced by negative events or hurts they’ve experienced through others. Or an erosion of faith. They simply view the system as it stands as incompatible with their faith and principles. Some are opting for house churches or informal gatherings in their place. Others are secular or prefer spirituality over religion.

Barna produced an insightful article addressing the issue.
I just read the article. It was very good. I think there are several reasons younger people are becoming more and more indifferent to the church in general:

1. Their parents no longer go. Grandma and grandpa may have attended, but that's where the family tradition ended.
2. There are a lot of competing interests
3. Public schools have vilified the Christian church while being overly "sensitive" to other religions
4. Unfortunately, a lot of people view "church" as just another expensive social gathering; a sort of Sunday country club for the wealthy. They view the local church as just another institutional throwback of the industrial age, looking to filch from their hard-earned money.

The last point is especially disturbing since these disaffected people are mostly right. Church has always been a place to "be seen" by others; to show off our fine clothes and shiny new cars. It has always been a place of social gathering.

But therein lies the problem. The church of Jesus Christ lives in each believer. There never has been the need for a "place." Jesus said,

For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them. Matt. 18:20

He didn't qualify that statement by saying, "That offer is only good for 300 years. After that, you need to build big buildings with stained glass windows, make the people who gather in it every week pay for it (whether they can afford it or not), and be sure to have one guy with a Ph.D. overseeing everything."

We can no longer rely on generational tradition to keep the institutional churches going. Besides, 1700 years is long enough. Although a flawed model, it has served society well. It is time to move on. Instead, we could be doing this:

1. Tell one person about Jesus and what he has done for us.
2. Train up that person to be a disciple of Christ
3. Repeat

Now we have two or three gathered in His name. How wonderful is that? And to think we did it without expensive buildings, high paid pastors, and massive budgets!
 

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Instead, we could be doing this:

1. Tell one person about Jesus and what he has done for us.
2. Train up that person to be a disciple of Christ
3. Repeat

Now we have two or three gathered in His name. How wonderful is that? And to think we did it without expensive buildings, high paid pastors, and massive budgets!
I’ve been feeling a desire to host gatherings with groups of friends and unsaved people for lunch or dinner in my home. Where conversation, laughter and sharing will cultivate genuine fellowship. I love to entertain.

For me, the draw is mutual investment. The encouragement and support are forthcoming and never forced. You want to help, serve, and love one another. And we’d take turns hosting and sharing life over tasty meals or outings instead. That’s the direction I‘m moving towards.
 

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Ive organised bible gatherings in public places, workplaces have them at lunchtimes, in libraries...taught in schools it doesnt have to be at a designated church. Methodists did this. Home groups are very common here. I do learn more in small home groups than I do in larger gatherings.

And it is easier to organise with say about 12 people tops. Cos thats what Jesus did at first, any larger number than that, he probably couldnt effectively teach one on one. If it gets to be bigger than that you need more than one teacher/facilitator or you split the group.

I would say anything can happen when 2 or 3 gather in His name, and I value that time when we get together even if its just two or three of us. 5 can fit in one car...so...its not like you really need a whole busload.

I never really had the idea that you had to go inside a particular building to find God. I have learned that some people are very attached to their buildings but the cost of maintaining them is way too much for just one person to handle, and many just fall into neglect and disrepair. While the newer church buidlings being built are quite impressive, I think they are just like pretty empty shells you find washed up on the beach if God is not there.
 
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There needs to be a distinction between a benevolent society like the one displayed by the early church and Marxism, which is what you are so adamant about.

But herein lies the problem. Pastors and other church leaders are so afraid of communism that it has clouded their judgment. For example, they often say to themselves, if not to their congregations:

"If we give our money to the poor, we may be labeled communists. We certainly don't want to go against the conservatives, since most of our big donors are aligned with that group."

"If we start giving stuff away, here comes a bunch of other free-loaders on the gravy train."

"My time is valuable. I spent a lot of money going to school. Why should I spend time counseling someone when they are just going to fall back into their own trap."

" This is something the socialist Democrats do."

And on and on it goes... Our church leaders are so afraid of the right-wing of the Republican party, they have forgotten why they are in business-- to serve. Jesus didn't go into the ministry with the idea of erecting a building, throwing 100 people in it, having a sermon every week, and then spending the other 164 hours that week preparing for "another awesome sermon."

Instead, Jesus did this:

He preached Matt. 5

He healed the sick Matt 8.

He trained His disciples Matt 10.

He taught Matt. 13.

He evangelized John 4.

He fed 5,000 people John 6

He washed the disciple's feet John 13.

He did all this without a building, a group of elders, a music band complete with stages and lights, a college degree, a new house, or a new car. He had nothing:

Now when Jesus saw a crowd around him, he gave orders to go over to the other side. And a scribe came up and said to him, "Teacher, I will follow you wherever you go." And Jesus said to him, "Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head." Matt. 8: 18-20


I wonder if Franklin Graham would be willing to give up his $30 million net worth to follow the same example.
Again the early church was not practicing communism by any stretch of the imagination.

I cannot help it if people are so stupid to listen to pastors who make those absurd statements.

Yup Graham has made lots of money... Christian's are duped everyday.

However, socialism does not out an end to greed, so the basis of your argument is flawed.
 
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I’ve been feeling a desire to host gatherings with groups of friends and unsaved people for lunch or dinner in my home. Where conversation, laughter and sharing will cultivate genuine fellowship. I love to entertain.

For me, the draw is mutual investment. The encouragement and support are forthcoming and never forced. You want to help, serve, and love one another. And we’d take turns hosting and sharing life over tasty meals or outings instead. That’s the direction I‘m moving towards.
That's amazing! I am so glad to hear that you are doing that. It sounds like a real, authentic fellowship to me. Let us know how it goes so I can learn from that.
 
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Many churches arem actually community churches thats how many are run in nz. The congregationalists were a denom that everything was run by everybody there wasnt just one person doing everything like a pyramid scheme like you have in other churches that are run as corporations with just a couple of people at the 'top'
This is also very encouraging. I am assuming you are from NZ? Your church sounds wonderful; the kind of church I can only dream of here in the states. Blessings to you.
 
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Yup Graham has made lots of money... Christian's are duped everyday.
It wasn't my intention to vilify Franklin Graham, or his father, for that matter. I don't think his accumulation of wealth was necessarily devious in any way. I just think there comes a point where a pastor has to call a halt to his ministry becoming a capitalist empire.
 
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I’ve been feeling a desire to host gatherings with groups of friends and unsaved people for lunch or dinner in my home. Where conversation, laughter and sharing will cultivate genuine fellowship. I love to entertain.
We have been doing that for over 20 years. The house we have can easily handle 50 or 60 people. Up to 100 if they go outside during the summer. This was actually designed by an architect and there are quite a few conversation areas where groups of people can gather together to talk with each other. Sometimes we will pick someone out and give them or their kids special treatment if they have been going through a difficult time in their life. They usually come back and what this to go on forever but it is more of a one shot deal for one of the events. It may surprise us how many people there are that no one ever does anything special for them. Even just to buy them a cake or something for their birthday. My wife use to make a stew in the crock pot and it was really just for one person. But he really appreciated her cooking. Of course people will bring stuff to contribute. When my son graduated from High School we want out to the park. There were a lot of people there. Maybe 400 or 500. He was in the marching band so he had a lot of his friends there from that. The graduation gifts pretty much balance out what it cost to have an event like that. Although the money they gave him has always gone toward his tuition. He is real good with his money in that regard. It looks like he is going to graduate from college debt free. It can be a lot of work to organize these events but it is a lot of fun. Sort of like a potluck dinner at church. I know churches that have events like that at least once a month. This is a time for fellowship and for people getting to know each other.
 
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We have been doing that for over 20 years. The house we have can easily handle 50 or 60 people. Up to 100 if they go outside during the summer. This was actually designed by an architect and there are quite a few conversation areas where groups of people can gather together to talk with each other. Sometimes we will pick someone out and give them or their kids special treatment if they have been going through a difficult time in their life.
Now that is Christian love.

It can be a lot of work to organize these events but it is a lot of fun. Sort of like a potluck dinner at church. I know churches that have events like that at least once a month. This is a time for fellowship and for people getting to know each other.
I think that would be a great thing for churches to bring the potluck fellowships back.
 

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some churches do a shared meal every month, some every week with the supermarkets donating the produce.

organising a group...well all you need to do, is like Jesus, just call people to gather and they will come. Provide a venue to meet every week (home or public place) and then you have it. Bring your Bibles and have a prayer time and then a sharing time and reading time. If some like to sing or share food then thats ok too. I have done this in lunchbreaks where most people have half an hour to an hour spare.