Why do "bible believing" Christian use "reality" to justify what they believe?

Footnote; Parables are examples of the world, this age that is. Our Savior used them to explain at our level many important teachings.

It use to be, years ago, most would use scripture as their authority, to argue their point.
Now, most use the real world as their authority and to trump the truths of the bible.
I hear many say they believe the bible as the truth and even that it is the inerrant word of God, written through holy men of old who were moved by the Holy Ghost, only for them to completely ignore what is written and state what others are doing or what happened to others or themselves, as though, by stating such, proves said statement is the evidence of what is the real truth and true authority to follow.
The bible seems to have become irrelevant in today's church and to so-called believers.
I ask many, "what is written?", only for it to go ignored or for them to tell me what happened to someone or what so and so did, or what is happening in the "real world".
What in God's green earth, does that have to do with what truth is?
They don't live in a pipe dream world..., no..., reality dictates what is fact, (considered by them to be truth,) and what is fiction.
If the interpretation doesn't line up with "reality", then it's fiction, and therefore we need to change said interpretation to line up with our FAILED experiences.
Reality therefore, dictates what they should believe and not believe, or what doctrines to believe and which ones to call "doctrines of the devil".
And now, even doctrines used by those who produce, so-called, "bad fruit", are considered bad or evil doctrines, and lies of the devil, while that which truly is bad and evil, such as sickness and poverty, are considered blessings of and from God.
What happened to scripture being the foundation of doctrines?
Words of faith, is a doctrine straight out of the scriptures, yet it is called a lie of the devil, and those whose teach such, such as yours truly, are called heretics, cultist, liars, evil, and corrupt teacher of doctrines of devils, and the like.
So what is your doctrinal authority in and how do you justify it, if it is not in the word of God?
And how can we tell which interpretations are of the truth, both of and from God, and which ones are not, when reality, or the real world, is involved?

When a miracle is worked through any one of us by the Father, or the ift of knowledge is given, and of course a healing, this is also from the Word but a direct intervention of God using a willing servant as Hisw worker. It has occurred with me and with many others along my Way given me, so in these instances yes, and most likely experiences are just as valid when given by our F
ather to willing srvants for His glorification. He is so wonderful, just wonderful.

WOF?

When did whatever that is become a Doctrine?

WOF?

When did whatever that is become a Doctrine?

I have had the same happen to me as well, but what happens when your experiences disagree with what is written?
For example, there have been times when I prayed for my deliverance and healing from a cold, and nothing happened.
Should I then tell others, "God doesn't want me to get well", or "maybe He's trying to teach me something, like how to be humble", or something like that, based upon my experiences, even though it contradicts scripture?

I hear what your saying. I noticed this as well. I find that a lot of times when people get discouraged they may feel like Following the Bible word for word has let them down in some way and try to find excuses to use the real world to argue their point of why they are disobeying Gods word. I have an example from my life. There was a time that I was treated very bad by someone who was close to me. I would always treat them nicely to try to overcome their evil remembering the verse "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Romans 12:21. When they would cheat me, call me names, talk bad about me I would forgive them instantly, take care of them, do favors for them. This resulted in the person taking more advantage of me. I felt like In reality I was enabling them to continue mistreating them by trying to overcome evil with good. Eventually I realized that there are boundaries and consequences that people must have. I've realized that it takes time to see fruit and if you are faithful to God and listen to his word you will eventually reap good fruit. But when a person gets discouraged it's a dangerous place because satin starts to tempt you and you start doubting the authority of the word.

sorry, this might be somewhat off topic here, just been on my mind and seems like a good spot to throw it out there at.

when it comes to words of faith, one thing many people often forget (and often do not teach about) is a certain little word called "TIME".....
there are 3 parts:

SEED
TIME
HARVEST

many people seem to want to make it only 2 parts
SEEDTIME (as in the time you are planting the seed)
HARVEST

I have often heard it referred to more like this:

SEED
TIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIME
HARVEST

you see, when a farmer plants his seed, the harvest isn't instantaneous. It takes TIME for it to take root and sprout before growing into a full blown harvest.

I think that is exactly what happens most of the time.
I mean, you're left there scratching your head wondering, 'what went wrong?', when nothing happens or the situation gets worse.
And at that moment, a whole slew of thoughts come at you, along with the pastor and other church goers telling you it wasn't God's will for you, and sometimes God say, 'no', don't ya know.
Then you are lead to think "that faith stuff don't work", followed by, "them word of faith preachers are liars and cult leaders."
I think people come up with these excuses to succor their hurt feelings, kind of like a binky or pacifier, not understanding why.
I don't know why exactly people do that, but I concur with you.
But does that make them right and their experience the truth, while making the word out to be wrong or a lie?
I think, NOT.

Ok, thanks. I am completely against that, so I guess that makes me a bad guy or something. Those folks today who teach this are only trying to justify their search for PERSONAL wealth, and it has nothing to do with glorifying God IMO.

anyway, thanks

In my Personal experience I realized that this verse Romans 8:28 is true "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose." I realized that it takes time for us to see the fruit that comes from us obeying the Lord even in the most difficult situation. When you are in the trial going through a hard time it's difficult to believe that things will get better all you can see is whats in front of you. After time passes and you look back you can see how much stronger you are and how much better off you are when God leads you through something.