Do you enjoy your singleness?

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Butterflyyy

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Mel85 said:
Just want to understand the part in bold? Not sure if I’ve heard of that before. Please clarify? :)
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Like feminists you know, they think they don't need men and try to be like men. But The Lord has a beautiful design for a man and woman to be one and to depend on each other. The world don't comprehend this concept.
 
Alby

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Mel85 said:
Just want to understand the part in bold? Not sure if I’ve heard of that before. Please clarify? :)
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The idea of being an "independent woman" in today's world is a feminist, secular lie that seeks to divide men and women and ultimately destroy the nuclear family and break people's relationship with God. It's evil.

The same can be said for this idea of "the rugged individual" and even "freedom" all of which are terms that seek to divide and destroy.

ALL LIES.
 
Mel85

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Butterflyyy said:
It's a good thing because I don't know who would put up with you tbh
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Well, it’s not really our jobs to “put up with someone”, but rather pray for the brother or sister.
 
Butterflyyy

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Mel85 said:
Well, it’s not really our jobs to “put up with someone”, but rather pray for the brother or sister.
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Well I am having to put up with him on here but yes it is a good point, I ought to pray for him. Amen.
 
Butterflyyy

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Mel85 said:
Well, it’s not really our jobs to “put up with someone”, but rather pray for the brother or sister.
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The Bible does talk about us using the Bible for reproof, and I do find this brother to be hard-hearted and unkind.
 
Alby

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Mel85

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Butterflyyy said:
The Bible does talk about us using the Bible for reproof, and I do find this brother to be hard-hearted and unkind.
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It’s okay sister. Leave that to God and just pray for him. I’ve also had my share of conflicts with a number of people on here, including SD, but I’d rather encourage you to put that energy into praying for him (also him praying for you) - and only God can show us all through the Holy Spirit the rights and wrongs of our words and actions through conviction.
 
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Butterflyyy said:
Well I am having to put up with him on here but yes it is a good point, I ought to pray for him. Amen.
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ever since i made the MGTOW thread you have been following me around the forums giving a thumbs down to every post I make, and now you follow me here? I'm going to put you on ignore now sister.

I don't even know you. We've never had a single interaction beyond exchanging a few replies.
 
Alby

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hmmmm the story intensifies lol

Not everyone gets along, the ignore button is a good option
 
Gregoryp

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Alby said:
The idea of being an "independent woman" in today's world is a feminist, secular lie that seeks to divide men and women and ultimately destroy the nuclear family and break people's relationship with God. It's evil.

The same can be said for this idea of "the rugged individual" and even "freedom" all of which are terms that seek to divide and destroy.

ALL LIES.
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oh the rugged individual ! Here in australia it has become an art form. How to be a male in Australia, have a beard, have at least one tattoo, shave your head, drive an SUV or a very large ute (pickup to anyone else) , do not call your friend Damion, its Damo, not David its Davo etc etc. Make sure your into sport, the more violent the better, do not sew, or show an interest in art work, as this is considered gay. And on it goes. These guys get the women btw, including christian women. The rest of us who enjoy sewing, going on road trips, love animals, detest sport, go to art gallery or concerts in the park are anathema to the women here, we have no hope :(
 
Gregoryp

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So my lament is, where the heck are the real bible reading, Holy Spirit filled women who are not aspirational. Were they caught up in the rapture and no one told us??
 
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Alby said:
The pursuit of being an "independent woman" is what I was replying to. Of course, God has plans for some people that don't include marriage but he doesn't want you to embrace the secular idea of "independence".

THAT is absolute baloney.
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Well, how do define independence? And what does that look like in practice for a woman in 2019?
I believe feminism is cancer. I also believe that excessive anti-feminism can be cancerous.

I see in the teachings of Scripture a balance that is sustained by God. Some he chooses for marriage, some he chooses for singleness. Are we really in a position to question him?
 
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Mel85 said:
It’s okay sister. Leave that to God and just pray for him. I’ve also had my share of conflicts with a number of people on here, including SD, but I’d rather encourage you to put that energy into praying for him (also him praying for you) - and only God can show us all through the Holy Spirit the rights and wrongs of our words and actions through conviction.
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Melon, you are my favorite New Zealand person. FOR REALS k?
 
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Gregoryp said:
oh the rugged individual ! Here in australia it has become an art form. How to be a male in Australia, have a beard, have at least one tattoo, shave your head, drive an SUV or a very large ute (pickup to anyone else) , do not call your friend Damion, its Damo, not David its Davo etc etc. Make sure your into sport, the more violent the better, do not sew, or show an interest in art work, as this is considered gay. And on it goes. These guys get the women btw, including christian women. The rest of us who enjoy sewing, going on road trips, love animals, detest sport, go to art gallery or concerts in the park are anathema to the women here, we have no hope :(
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well yea buddy.......
when i sew, i make sure i draw the blinds and never tell anyone about it. thats the safest bet.
 
Butterflyyy

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selfdissolving said:
ever since i made the MGTOW thread you have been following me around the forums giving a thumbs down to every post I make, and now you follow me here? I'm going to put you on ignore now sister.

I don't even know you. We've never had a single interaction beyond exchanging a few replies.
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I can assure you I have NOT been following you around. If I have given a thumbs down it is for a valid reason which you ought to consider.
 
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