Maybe we should discuss this further.
I don't know why people always say John 3 is difficult to reconcile with limited atonement. It is John 3 that SHOWS limited atonement.
John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
That limits the atonement to believers, and Christ Himself is the One who said it.
John 3:18 He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.
19 And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.
20 For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved.
21 But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.
The reason for their unbelief is not election not is it predetermined. They have chosen to love sin more than the light of Gods goodness.
For the cause of Christ
Roger