Ostrich, some good food for thought. A comment on the one who sacrificed himself and then being cursed for all time. That's why he is Jesus, the lord and savior. He is more than capable to be next to one suffering immense pain and turmoil while also being able to transcend into the light. He is both in long-suffering with the hurting and kept in endless peace. I don't know how to describe such a thing but no pain is greater than he can bear. Of all the pains known to man, the greatest to the lord is seeing his children in a broken world suffering from sin. Still he does not leave us. Once I realized that the pure and ever present lord was with me all of my day's I prayed over and over for him to deliver to me someone that was suffering as I once was so that I could help ease the burden of that soul and the little Jesus that was next to them. He is silent and does not require you to know his love, but when you do, it is abundant and unending.
Matthew 25:
For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, "I was a stranger and you invited me in, I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’
“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
“The King will reply, ‘I tell you the truth, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me
No where in that passage does it say that he was visited among the believers, rather he was among the hurting and those in need even when they did not know he was there. So I say, tend to any who may need tending for the heart and soul of the lord is with them. The lord is true and great and he encompasses all of man kind. Seek the lord in his turmoil and ease the heart of your brother or sister and know they are among the king.