Bad Relationship Advice

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Lynx

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
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maxwel said:
"Girls are all the same; it doesn't matter which one you marry. You're not getting any younger bro... just pick one and get it over with."

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That was actual advice.

Just pick one and get it over with.
That's pretty much the same way I pick a new rubbish bin.
It IS efficient... but it kind of lacks romance.

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The difference being I NEED a trash can. Though many have tried to convince me I need a wife (for reasons I cannot ascertain) nobody has been successful. So I have all the time I need to be picky about finding a girl.
 
tourist

tourist

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Tinuviel said:
Responding to me saying "I've never been on a date"

"Of course not. You're confident and that's attractive to a lot of guys, but you need to loosen up a bit if you want to get dates. Have fun. Party. Get drunk. Find yourself a good contraceptive and see what kind of boys you like. You can't just dismiss someone because you don't like what they believe. Loosen up and have a good time. Find other common ground. You're not going to hold a guy if they think you're a straight-laced prude."

Needless to say...NO. I did not take their advice, and don't plan to. Ever.
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I agree that whoever told you that gave horrible advice. You were wise to not even considering it.
 
tourist

tourist

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melita916 said:
i was never given this advice, but i'm sure we've all heard it:

if it's true love, then everything will be easy.
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True love is never easy, relationship take a tremendous amount of work. I'm sure also that you know this full well. :)
 
Lynx

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
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cinder said:
Because then every time she wants hershey's bars she'll just start acting up.
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Eww... if somebody tried to give me a h*rsh*y bar that would CAUSE me to start acting up. Couldn't we use something with a bit better flavor?

"A thing is only worth what somebody is willing to pay for it." H*rsh*y actually has a NEGATIVE value for me - somebody would have to pay me to eat it.
 
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toinena

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#26
Get married and everything will be all right!

Get children and your husband will love you forever.
 
Tinkerbell725

Tinkerbell725

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Ignore him. If he does not reach out first, he is not worth it. Silent treatment is the worst advice ever. It is the no 1 relationship killer.
 
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