That is kind of my point. Third wave feminism doesn't leave much room for romance if man and woman must be forever jokeying over what makes them equal.
Yes, I agree. It's like some ladies don't like being what they are. Why is it so bad, that certain ladies raises h***, whenever somebody's holding the door for them? I saw this sweet old gentleman holding the door for a lady in town and she just gave him a rude comment and walked away with her nose so high she'd best be praying for the rain to stop...
I have to be honest, it makes my day everytime somebody's being courteous. I always smile the most gracious way I can, saying a hushed "thank you". They seem to like it
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