Oh thanks for asking...
Checking yourself....
One girl is very disruptive. She is a leader, meaning the other kids want her approval. She is a bit of a bully and at the last game she hollered at another player, saying .."you suck at volleyball".
Anyway, I told them who do you think you are, that before they spout out at others, best make sure your actions, thoughts and attitude are where they need to be.
I told them ball control, the games, all of everything off and on the court requires your checking yourself first and foremost, before you concern yourself with what your sister in Christ is doing. It is a christian school and they are female middle schoolers.