Main Points In The Ideal Relationship?

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Does anyone have any opinions? What should be the main points we consider when dating someone,or thinking of dating someone? I've been single for all of my life because I don't know who I'm looking for. Any help would be great.
 
The main point, for me at least, is that you balance each other out. Where he/she would be out there partying, the other should be at home with a book, or something similar to that. Just being the same doesn't allow for any good intellectual debates, conversations, or events. But if you are just different enough, you can actually talk and enjoy each other. True, it can lead to arguments, but if it's enough, and the people are open minded enough, the arguments will fade
 
Honestly, at 15, i'd say don't waste your time. Dating at your age especially only sets you up for heart break. Very few relationships that start this early ever last into marriage. Since they key idea for dating is marriage, why date if you know its going to fail? You have lots of time left to worry about finding a woman, at least wait until you're old enough, mature enough and have a real understanding of what being in a relationship means. Enjoy your life, your freedom and focus on your walk. Save dating til you're ready to marry.
 
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Honestly, at 15, i'd say don't waste your time. Dating at your age especially only sets you up for heart break. Very few relationships that start this early ever last into marriage. Since they key idea for dating is marriage, why date if you know its going to fail? You have lots of time left to worry about finding a woman, at least wait until you're old enough, mature enough and have a real understanding of what being in a relationship means. Enjoy your life, your freedom and focus on your walk. Save dating til you're ready to marry.
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Big cake of happiness, sunshine and rainbows, huh? Though I do agree, marriage probably won't come from the same person you first date, but this is the time to see what you want in a person you are dating.
 
Why don't you ask God instead of humans who don't know the plans for your life that God has set out ;) He has been showing me what to do and what works for me and so far every time I listen to him instead of all of the other people around me I have a wonderful time. I can't wait until he brings along my husband...but until then I will follow his lead. See going to God is great he shows you who is good and bad for you which men would be suitable etc...but honestly he also has someone amazing set aside for you and there is no reason to go dating other people and doing things with them or having spiritual connections to them and getting swept into the ways of the world...I know you are young and excited and don't want to hear this...but God can prepare you better himself without having to date these other people. Besides that fact... you will have to explain everything you have done and everyone you have dated and go to God with your heartbreaks before you marry anyways,...so why not simplify things and just wait and don't date anyone until God tells you...and also keep in mind that sometimes God gives you options but also sets aside better ones...so be sure to see what he might have in store for you! XD
 
You are to young to worry about dating or a relationship. Do some boy things, have fun. I didn't date until I got out of the Navy 22 years old. When I was 15 and a half, I had my pilots license and ham operator license. Did a lot of camping, shooting, fishing with some of my friends. Take your time young man and enjoy life. When old enough no body will have to tell you anything, your heart will speak loud and clear. Cheers
 
been single all your life YOUR 15 you havent had a life yet im 22 and my life is just starting and im telling you know relationships is not the thing to worry about getting a job or higher education your own place working out how to spend your money this buckles you down enough that it makes a pain to enjoy your life with friends and do things you cant really do in a relationship . so relax and enjoy life and ask this question again when your 35 and single
 
The first thing you need to do is ask youself if your ready. Then if you think you are then you should pray to God about to see if he thinks you are ready and ask him to bring the right girl in your life that he wants to be in you life... And when you do start datin you should keep your relationship based around the lord.. I wish you luck in findin answers but i would not worry to much about finding anyone God will put that right person in your life when he is ready for you to have her.
 
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