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Shouldn't a man who can cook be more attractive? WhoWho will feed me, a food lover, and soothe my soul with his dedicated food? Hahahaha.
Yea a man can cook.
I'd be worried if he couldn't.
At least be able to use a rice cooker or an air fryer. I can teach wok skills, and everything else. So when I'm hungry I can just say 'darling I'm too tired to cook. How about your turn tonight? '. And then he can make me some eggs.
 
是的,男人也会做饭。
如果他做不到,我会很担心。
至少得会用电饭煲或空气炸锅。我可以教他炒锅的技巧,还有其他所有厨艺。这样我饿的时候就可以说:“亲爱的,我太累了不想做饭,今晚轮到你了。”然后他就可以给我煎个鸡蛋了。
I suddenly want to eat fried rice cakes, sprinkle with salt and pepper and chopped green onion, and expect such a man to do it for me.
 
We'll provide the hot chocolate with the pie. You got to have a drink. Or iced chocolate. Or chocolate milkshake. Don't worry, you'll be having chocolate with the pies.
So the chocolate is not in the pie anymore, it is in the drink.

Great. As long as I know where to look. I'll take the drink and leave the pie.
 
@Starsdance7 你写的是八角形(Octagonal)吗?你在写章鱼(Octopus)吗?

Hello, it should be Chinese star anise. I tried Italian noodles a few times at western restaurants, I think I like them if the cook cooks well. Do you like hot pot?
I have tasted the salted chicken you mentioned. What's the taste of your mother's cooking? Sweet or salty? It's really delicious, similar to roast chicken here, with a bottle of white wine, which is what China men love haha
I know what you mean, the noodles should be el dente, its that sweet spot where its not soggy but its not tough and chewy either.
 
Well that was easy.
So the whole 'going out for dinner' is a sham. What a man really wants is for the lady/woman to invite the gent/man over to her kitchen where she will cook the meal and he won't have to pay anything.

On the other hand, the Lady/woman wants the Gent/man to take her out for dinner, and pay for her so she won't have to cook or do dishes.

Make sense? Why didn't anyone see that before?
 
Shouldn't a man who can cook be more attractive? WhoWho will feed me, a food lover, and soothe my soul with his dedicated food? Hahahaha.
unfortunately I think most women look at the bank statements and wallet before anything else. Which is mistake number 1, because a guy with a loaded bank account may not have any deposits, assets or investments in ethics or morality.
 
Well that was easy.
So the whole 'going out for dinner' is a sham. What a man really wants is for the lady/woman to invite the gent/man over to her kitchen where she will cook the meal and he won't have to pay anything.

On the other hand, the Lady/woman wants the Gent/man to take her out for dinner, and pay for her so she won't have to cook or do dishes.

Make sense? Why didn't anyone see that before?
Because it's been about 12 years since I last dated a woman.
 
unfortunately I think most women look at the bank statements and wallet before anything else. Which is mistake number 1, because a guy with a loaded bank account may not have any deposits, assets or investments in ethics or morality.
true, it's a trap, didn't you know.
 
Well that was easy.
So the whole 'going out for dinner' is a sham. What a man really wants is for the lady/woman to invite the gent/man over to her kitchen where she will cook the meal and he won't have to pay anything.

On the other hand, the Lady/woman wants the Gent/man to take her out for dinner, and pay for her so she won't have to cook or do dishes.

Make sense? Why didn't anyone see that before?
If she tries to ban me from the kitchen, there's going to be a fight.

I prefer to do the cooking, and the dishes can be done after she goes home.
 
Ain't that the truth.
I can't find any and I live in the biggest city in my country. With the most traffic.
Feminism is destroying our nations, In Genesis what did God do? He created Man and put him in the Garden, then He created Eve and instituted Marrage when the 2 become 1. Then after the Fall He instituted men to work in the field tilling the ground, and women to submit to their husbands, it was only after the fall that god instituted pain with child birth. One of the highest and honourable positions a person can hold (outside of ministry) is being a husband or wife. But women in stead of honouring traditional marriage have abandoned their calling as mothers and wives to try and become like men tilling the ground. So now our countries are in a crisis because families are no longer having children to replace the dying population.

Men no longer honour their commitments to their wives. Or some just use women for one night stands and it leaves scars that never heal making it difficult for establishing relationships. Then look at some of the things Jesus said in the New testament, about honouring and obeying each other and not provoking children to wrath. If humans were smart enough to do everything Gods way, I have no doubt the world would be a much better place.

It's like what Robert Sheffy said well the character from the documentary movie. "God lets his people have their way, he doesn't force his will on them".

watch the movie
 
Feminism is destroying our nations, In Genesis what did God do? He created Man and put him in the Garden, then He created Eve and instituted Marrage when the 2 become 1. Then after the Fall He instituted men to work in the field tilling the ground, and women to submit to their husbands, it was only after the fall that god instituted pain with child birth. One of the highest and honourable positions a person can hold (outside of ministry) is being a husband or wife. But women in stead of honouring traditional marriage have abandoned their calling as mothers and wives to try and become like men tilling the ground. So now our countries are in a crisis because families are no longer having children to replace the dying population.

Men no longer honour their commitments to their wives. Or some just use women for one night stands and it leaves scars that never heal making it difficult for establishing relationships. Then look at some of the things Jesus said in the New testament, about honouring and obeying each other and not provoking children to wrath. If humans were smart enough to do everything Gods way, I have no doubt the world would be a much better place.

It's like what Robert Sheffy said well the character from the documentary movie. "God lets his people have their way, he doesn't force his will on them".

watch the movie
Oh ok. But that's the way the world is these days.
I had a workmate who was a test-tube baby. In Japan, they just can't sustain their population, its not because too few next population, it's because baby boomers are aging and outnumbering millenials who can't survive in an over populated by oldies environment.

Solution isn't simply more children. That would just make things worse (for the children)
Even Israel can't do everything God's way. They fight the other nations, and the world is NOT a better place.
 
I was told, by my own country, that women needed to work.
Different economies and times require something of women, post-war. Boomers need to sustain their lifestyle. They don't want grandchildren or can't afford to have them. Husbands can't afford to support a wife and children. If God truly wanted to have His nations thrive, He would set them up for success.

But no that's not what it's like. It's too polluted and wasted to do anything now. Sorry I'm being pessimistic. Don't blame feminism. Women get treated badly as wifes and mothers all the time. Wife-beating is a popular pastime.