I've been told this before, but does that invalidate my interpretation that every human being should value their life as a form of at least rudimentary self-love? She told me this: The Bible doesn't really talk about self-esteem. It says that love exists in God, because God is love. Love for others, for one's own life, for situations—all of these exist only in God. Outside of that, it's not love.
God, from what I see through experiences and scriptures is
God loves us all 1John 2:1-27. Jesus the Son that took on himself the sins of the entire world, past, present and future. Is completed for us all John 19:30. yet none of that done work gives new life, it just takes away sin John 1:29.
Now he is risen from the dead as reported by the disciples to us all in the Bible. that is where the new life for you and anyone in beleif to this between God and themselves. Begins the new life called to be new in love and mercy to all too.
The same as Son did willingly going to that cross without any fight back, not even a word fight back.
Who else could ever do that? I couldn't, can't. Can anyone else? I need God to do the leading, The Holy Spirit, you think?
Therefore what Son did is true, who was here on earth, who never sinned against God Father for us to get saved in his risen life. That Father gives to us each by God himself, as if you, I or anyone else never sinned Col 1:21-22, then read verse 23 and stand in this fact given and love all as are loved first by God first in risen Son for you too. Thank you Lord