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OutWrite Trouble
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Hey Everyone,

We've been talking about the CC Live Chat Rooms in another thread, and I mentioned that Once Upon a Time (when CC had live chat rooms in the past,) Lynx and I tried hosting a Singles Mingle Live Chat.

I've been checking out the chat setup, as well as talking to RoboOp (the site owner,) and he was kind enough to write back with some very helpful information:

1. We can create a room just for our chat. (But if I'm understanding correctly, only members paying the subscription can create a room.) I can start a room for at least our first try. If others decide to hold meetups, at least one person would have to be a paid member to create a new room.

The room will be deleted the same day if it becomes empty but can always be re-created at another time, whenever we had another meetup.

2. Any member can enter and participate in using the basic chat, mic, and camera.

But a subscription is required for extra features like the mic queue, initiating private messages, and creating another room (however, non-subscribers can join any room).


Would anyone like to try a Meetup Chat this Friday (January 2,) or Saturday (January 3)?

I don't know what time it would be, as I'd also have to see who else might be available -- but I'd plan on it being for an hour (people could stay and chat longer of course; I would just plan on being there for an hour.)

Due to my own experience, I generally like to have one person who could help facilitate a smooth group conversation on the mic, while I tend to "man the floor" -- typing greetings and comments as people come in. I think people find it much more welcoming this way. If I can help it, I don't want to people to come in and feel like no one even noticed them.

If we run into any problems (for instance, I have already heard about an incidence of someone in a chat room trying to promote some ideas I would not have agreed with regarding race issues,) the set hour would be a good safety valve. People could go whenever they wanted, and after the hour was up, I would leave -- and report any problems to administration, asking for how it should be handled.

I know this might also be an unpopular opinion, but I don't mind if our married friends who regularly post in Singles drop in as well (which is why I would call the room The Singles And Friends Meetup.)

From what I can tell, when people click on your username, a box will come up sharing the following information from your profile:

Age
Gender
Marital Status
Nationality
Country


So it should clearly state in each person's profile box whether they are single are married. And the reason I would be willing to include married friends is because they already hang with us here, and married friends often have other single friends -- whom they might want to introduce us to (if we can prove that we can behave -- for at least an hour!) :ROFL:

These are all just my own ideas, but you are all welcome to post your own ideas here. :)

I'm going to see if I can find a partner(s) in crime to host a chat this Friday or Saturday -- feel free to post the time AND time zone that you would be interested in. We obviously can't work around EVERYONE'S schedule, but don't worry, this is just a trial run anyway.

If this idea takes off, we might be able to rope, er, I mean, gently convince, others to host meetups that also cover different days and time zones. For example, since I'm always up early anyway, I might be able to host an early morning meetup here that would be during the evening for our friends in other parts of the world.

Also, if other people were running their own meetups, maybe they'd have their own set of guidelines (such as, just for singles only, certain ages only, etc.)

I tend to be rather lenient because I see these the site and such events as a place to meet friends, and not specifically to find a date (though if God sends someone along, that's up to Him!)

This is all just trial and error so I thank everyone in advance for their patience and helpful ideas as we give it a try!

I'm looking forward to meeting all of you! :)
 
I'm game on Friday night. I can be there from 5:00 p.m. central Time until I crash for the night.

Saturday is a no-go. That's my fun time. I hang out at the auction house every Saturday night.
 
If our married friends can join, how about unmingling singles (I don't know if that's a term)...who have strange voices? :D

If so, I'll see about making an appearance :coffee:
 
I'm game on Friday night. I can be there from 5:00 p.m. central Time until I crash for the night.

Saturday is a no-go. That's my fun time. I hang out at the auction house every Saturday night.
For reference, 5pm central is 6pm eastern, 4pm mountain and 3pm on the west coast.
 
If our married friends can join, how about unmingling singles (I don't know if that's a term)...who have strange voices? :D
If so, I'll see about making an appearance :coffee:

In the spirit of the holidays, I'm thinking I might call it the "Forum Friends Jingle!"

For me, that would be part of the fun -- naming the chat something fun and associated with a new season/holiday/theme every time! :D

I would LOVE to see there, @CarriePie
 
For reference, 5pm central is 6pm eastern, 4pm mountain and 3pm on the west coast.

And for our friends in other countries besides the USA, you can always Google the equivalent of your own local time.

I'm game on Friday night. I can be there from 5:00 p.m. central Time until I crash for the night.

Saturday is a no-go. That's my fun time. I hang out at the auction house every Saturday night.

Ok, I'm going to go with THIS FRIDAY, JANUARY 2, for our first Chat Meetup. As soon as we decide a definite time, I'll post it here in the thread.

Since I've hosted with Lynx before, I know how to somewhat keep him under control. :oops:

Er... I mean... We pretty much know each other's style, so we'll have an idea of how to handle all the trouble -- from each other.

Sorry, but the rest of y'all are on your own. :cool::p:ROFL:
 
I went into the chat once to take a peak but have never done chat sessions so really didn't know what to do. It was like I was on another planet and didn't speak the local language... and only had two eyes.

No worries, @Tall_Timbers!

You're a staple in the threads and we'd love to have you there!

This is exactly why I wanted to make sure I could access the chat through my laptop before trying it. This way, I can have one window open for chat and another open for the forum. I'll announce in this thread that the chat is in progress, and people who are having problems or don't know how to get into it can post their questions here in the thread.

I'll keep an eye on things to try to help, or get Lynx to provide tech support.

This is also why I also want to have at least one or more co-hosts. One person can help others find the chat, while another can welcome and usher people in. In my experience, these kinds of things actually take a lot more work and planning than most might think.

But we'll try our best to have your back!
 
I took friday off work. I can show up though I might be in need of people to practice my bible storytelling on.
 
Hey Everyone,

We've been talking about the CC Live Chat Rooms in another thread, and I mentioned that Once Upon a Time (when CC had live chat rooms in the past,) Lynx and I tried hosting a Singles Mingle Live Chat.

I've been checking out the chat setup, as well as talking to RoboOp (the site owner,) and he was kind enough to write back with some very helpful information:

1. We can create a room just for our chat. (But if I'm understanding correctly, only members paying the subscription can create a room.) I can start a room for at least our first try. If others decide to hold meetups, at least one person would have to be a paid member to create a new room.

The room will be deleted the same day if it becomes empty but can always be re-created at another time, whenever we had another meetup.

2. Any member can enter and participate in using the basic chat, mic, and camera.

But a subscription is required for extra features like the mic queue, initiating private messages, and creating another room (however, non-subscribers can join any room).


Would anyone like to try a Meetup Chat this Friday (January 2,) or Saturday (January 3)?

I don't know what time it would be, as I'd also have to see who else might be available -- but I'd plan on it being for an hour (people could stay and chat longer of course; I would just plan on being there for an hour.)

Due to my own experience, I generally like to have one person who could help facilitate a smooth group conversation on the mic, while I tend to "man the floor" -- typing greetings and comments as people come in. I think people find it much more welcoming this way. If I can help it, I don't want to people to come in and feel like no one even noticed them.

If we run into any problems (for instance, I have already heard about an incidence of someone in a chat room trying to promote some ideas I would not have agreed with regarding race issues,) the set hour would be a good safety valve. People could go whenever they wanted, and after the hour was up, I would leave -- and report any problems to administration, asking for how it should be handled.

I know this might also be an unpopular opinion, but I don't mind if our married friends who regularly post in Singles drop in as well (which is why I would call the room The Singles And Friends Meetup.)

From what I can tell, when people click on your username, a box will come up sharing the following information from your profile:

Age
Gender
Marital Status
Nationality
Country


So it should clearly state in each person's profile box whether they are single are married. And the reason I would be willing to include married friends is because they already hang with us here, and married friends often have other single friends -- whom they might want to introduce us to (if we can prove that we can behave -- for at least an hour!) :ROFL:

These are all just my own ideas, but you are all welcome to post your own ideas here. :)

I'm going to see if I can find a partner(s) in crime to host a chat this Friday or Saturday -- feel free to post the time AND time zone that you would be interested in. We obviously can't work around EVERYONE'S schedule, but don't worry, this is just a trial run anyway.

If this idea takes off, we might be able to rope, er, I mean, gently convince, others to host meetups that also cover different days and time zones. For example, since I'm always up early anyway, I might be able to host an early morning meetup here that would be during the evening for our friends in other parts of the world.

Also, if other people were running their own meetups, maybe they'd have their own set of guidelines (such as, just for singles only, certain ages only, etc.)

I tend to be rather lenient because I see these the site and such events as a place to meet friends, and not specifically to find a date (though if God sends someone along, that's up to Him!)

This is all just trial and error so I thank everyone in advance for their patience and helpful ideas as we give it a try!

I'm looking forward to meeting all of you! :)

I will always be part if the time is convenient
 
This sounds fun, and I would have liked to participate, but it is in the middle of the night here. Because of my current situation I can't afford to sacrifice night sleep.
 
This sounds fun, and I would have liked to participate, but it is in the middle of the night here. Because of my current situation I can't afford to sacrifice night sleep.
Oh... yeah, definitely, sleep pwns chat. If I had to do one or the other, I'd take sleep every day. Uh... Every night.