God gives the surrender too.
No, surrender has to be a choice.
Text book "God's way" , He looking for those who will freely choose Him. And that's done by a personal surrender to Him and a life inspired by such surrender.
Meeting you half way, He does give us the "ability" to surrender. A brain, a body, the ability to make decisions, and so on.
But it's a choice, our choice. Maybe the only choice we're truly capable of making.