A close colleague and friend of mine died a few weeks ago, and I will be giving a eulogy at her funeral on Tuesday. In addition to being a great literary scholar, poet, and writing stories for children, Ruth was also a devout Jew, and her funeral will be held at a Jewish synagogue. This will be the first time I attend a service at a synagogue, and I am honored that her family asked me to speak at her memorial.
Names are meaningful in our Hebrew and Christian traditions. Ruth is translated as “compassionate friend”, and my name, David, is translated as “beloved.” Although I’ve known Ruth and served with her on an academic board for 20 years, I never made the connection between our two names from a historical and spiritual perspective. Ruth was the great grandmother of King David.
The book of Ruth is a short story that is smashed in between the historical books of Joshua and Judges on one end and Samuel through Kings on the other in Christian Bibles. Why? The first verse of the book of Ruth provides the answer:
Ruth 1:1
New King James Version
1 Now it came to pass, in the days when the judges [a]ruled, that there was a famine in the land. And a certain man of Bethlehem, Judah, went to [b]dwell in the country of Moab, he and his wife and his two sons.
The book of Ruth is set in the time of the judges a few generations before the beginning of the monarchy. It gives us a glimpse into the type of life the Israelites lived in that era and brings us into the family dynamics. How interesting that this family was from Bethlehem, the birthplace of both David and Jesus, descendants of Ruth.
After re-reading Ruth this week, the main theme that stood out to me is love. Ruth is a love story plain and simple. It is also a story that magnifies virtue as we see in this scene of Ruth interacting with her future husband, Boaz:
Ruth 3:9-11
New King James Version
9 And he [Boaz] said, “Who are you?”
So she answered, “I am Ruth, your maidservant. Take[a] your maidservant under your wing, for you are a [b]close relative.”
10 Then he said, “Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter! For you have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning, in that you did not go after young men, whether poor or rich. 11 And now, my daughter, do not fear. I will do for you all that you request, for all the people of my town know that you are a virtuous woman.
My friend, Ruth, was a virtuous woman as well. Although the grave separates us in some ways, her love and her legacy will live within me and all of us as our beloved.
Names are meaningful in our Hebrew and Christian traditions. Ruth is translated as “compassionate friend”, and my name, David, is translated as “beloved.” Although I’ve known Ruth and served with her on an academic board for 20 years, I never made the connection between our two names from a historical and spiritual perspective. Ruth was the great grandmother of King David.
The book of Ruth is a short story that is smashed in between the historical books of Joshua and Judges on one end and Samuel through Kings on the other in Christian Bibles. Why? The first verse of the book of Ruth provides the answer:
Ruth 1:1
New King James Version
1 Now it came to pass, in the days when the judges [a]ruled, that there was a famine in the land. And a certain man of Bethlehem, Judah, went to [b]dwell in the country of Moab, he and his wife and his two sons.
The book of Ruth is set in the time of the judges a few generations before the beginning of the monarchy. It gives us a glimpse into the type of life the Israelites lived in that era and brings us into the family dynamics. How interesting that this family was from Bethlehem, the birthplace of both David and Jesus, descendants of Ruth.
After re-reading Ruth this week, the main theme that stood out to me is love. Ruth is a love story plain and simple. It is also a story that magnifies virtue as we see in this scene of Ruth interacting with her future husband, Boaz:
Ruth 3:9-11
New King James Version
9 And he [Boaz] said, “Who are you?”
So she answered, “I am Ruth, your maidservant. Take[a] your maidservant under your wing, for you are a [b]close relative.”
10 Then he said, “Blessed are you of the Lord, my daughter! For you have shown more kindness at the end than at the beginning, in that you did not go after young men, whether poor or rich. 11 And now, my daughter, do not fear. I will do for you all that you request, for all the people of my town know that you are a virtuous woman.
My friend, Ruth, was a virtuous woman as well. Although the grave separates us in some ways, her love and her legacy will live within me and all of us as our beloved.