I need prayer! A single will understand and pray I hope!

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Mikemo

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Ok. Someone found me on Facebook. One in a million. This I hope is of the Lord. I see the spirit in her,calm,collected,kind, patient, caring, prudent. Generous in actions. I've looked for a Christian woman for 25 years! And always felt uneasy but this is way different! I feel peace. Not hesitant. Not in a hurry. Not pushy. Not afraid of judgement. Not critical. This feels like something never happened before! We have the same face features. Are cheeks both glow a little red the same color naturally. We are about the same height. Same color hair and eyes. This is so weird! It feels right. No one has ever felt right ever. I fear losing her but if I do and she is happy I feel I will have peace knowing she is happy and that's what I want for her even more than mine. Please, please, please pray brothers and sisters here!!????? We are moving slow. And that's how it should be. And I've never felt ok with slow. So i truly believe this is it! Again I beg please pray. A year from now or more(up to her) a marriage? Lord willing. Amen!
 
Hi Mikemo, welcome to the site!

A relationship that is blessed by God is definitely worth waiting for! Happy for you, and prayers sent that the Lord keeps you both in His will 🙏
 
How long have you known this person? Have you video chatted yet? Met in person? Is this soneone you previously knew or a stranger on the internet? While I would hope that she's as wonderful as you say and think she is, the truth is scammers are getting access to better and better technology every day. So they can make themselves look like anyone even in real time. And scamming lonely old people out of their life savings is big business. So prudence says guard your heart and money until you've met this lady in person and been able to verify she is who she claims.
 
Ok. Someone found me on Facebook. One in a million. This I hope is of the Lord. I see the spirit in her,calm,collected,kind, patient, caring, prudent. Generous in actions. I've looked for a Christian woman for 25 years! And always felt uneasy but this is way different! I feel peace. Not hesitant. Not in a hurry. Not pushy. Not afraid of judgement. Not critical. This feels like something never happened before! We have the same face features. Are cheeks both glow a little red the same color naturally. We are about the same height. Same color hair and eyes. This is so weird! It feels right. No one has ever felt right ever. I fear losing her but if I do and she is happy I feel I will have peace knowing she is happy and that's what I want for her even more than mine. Please, please, please pray brothers and sisters here!!????? We are moving slow. And that's how it should be. And I've never felt ok with slow. So i truly believe this is it! Again I beg please pray. A year from now or more(up to her) a marriage? Lord willing. Amen!

Hello
I am happy for you
Lord hear Mikemo and speak to him in this situation. Give him light Lord that he may see and walk in it. in Jesus' precious and mighty name.
 
Ok. Someone found me on Facebook. One in a million. This I hope is of the Lord. I see the spirit in her,calm,collected,kind, patient, caring, prudent. Generous in actions. I've looked for a Christian woman for 25 years! And always felt uneasy but this is way different! I feel peace. Not hesitant. Not in a hurry. Not pushy. Not afraid of judgement. Not critical. This feels like something never happened before! We have the same face features. Are cheeks both glow a little red the same color naturally. We are about the same height. Same color hair and eyes. This is so weird! It feels right. No one has ever felt right ever. I fear losing her but if I do and she is happy I feel I will have peace knowing she is happy and that's what I want for her even more than mine. Please, please, please pray brothers and sisters here!!????? We are moving slow. And that's how it should be. And I've never felt ok with slow. So i truly believe this is it! Again I beg please pray. A year from now or more(up to her) a marriage? Lord willing. Amen!
Proceed with the relationship at a pace that you are both comfortable with. My counsel is to make it a year or less rather than more.

I met my wife on Christian Chat, who is also a member, shortly after I joined in 2014. We were married about 10 months later on Thanksgiving Day.

You just never know who you are going to meet. I pray that this goes well for the both of you.
 
@Mikemo is this someone you met in real life who looked you up on Facebook and contacted you there, or is it a stranger youve never met who just messaged you out of the blue?

If it's a stranger messaging you out of the blue that's pretty sketchy, a lot of scammers use Facebook like that.

Please do be careful!