The gifts of the Holy Spirit is not given from Men but By God! What they did was wrong! I'm so glad you went and prayed because it sounds to me God gave you the correct wisdom in your thinking.
1 Corinthians 12 27-30
27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. 28 And God has placed in the church first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then miracles, then gifts of healing, of helping, of guidance, and of different kinds of tongues. 29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? 30 Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues[
b]? Do all interpret?
NO! Not everyone gets the gifts of Tongues and also tongues being spoken upon in a way without an interpreter is actually against the what scripture tells us to do. The way they did it to you is abominable and You need to hear this...I'm am sorry you was subjected to such rediculous behavior and your actions was correct against their behavior. A True Church service with tongues would have an interpreter also but also.
1 Corinthians 14:27-28
New International Version
27 If anyone speaks in a tongue, two—or at the most three—should speak, one at a time, and someone must interpret. 28 If there is no interpreter, the speaker should keep quiet in the church and speak to himself and to God.
What you witnessed and testified is appalling and disobedience that was done to God but also to you...I am so sorry... I know I didn't do it to you but you need to hear it. You did nothing wrong and I ask you to find another church to got to that actually Obey God in true worship. The fact you left a Church service feeling discouraged is not a fruit of the Holy Spirit. Joy of The Lord is what the Holy Spirit gives us
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