We shouldn’t be surprised when lost people act like lost people. To love those who hate you is to be gospel focused. No matter who they are, if we burn the bridge and isolate or give up on the lost, then we are failing the Great Commission.
You may not agree with the opinions of others but why expect it to be easy when the only answer is life transformation in Christ?
Of course, darkness will always be at odds with the light. Should we be surprised at the depravity when the source is Jesus deprived? Have we forgotten they once crucified Christ and martyred most of the Apostles and many of the Christians in the early church?
Jesus warned us that if they hated Him, they would hate those who follow Him. Now of course like Paul using his rights as a Roman citizen, we should appeal to justice and use our rights to promote revival.
Hate is what Jesus called murder in the heart. It's okay to be righteously angry but be in anger and do not sin. Righteous anger stirs up action to defend truth or speak with conviction.
Christ died for us while we were still in our sins. We do not battle against flesh and blood but the powers behind it, the spiritual darkness. Every unbeliever no matter if they like or hate us must never be vilified or dehumanized to the point we no longer see the value of the soul.